How do I get my ex-girlfriend back?

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My ex-girlfriend, who before I asked her out, we would have on and off relationships since 9th grade and I have had a crush on her since 7th grade


Well she's a sophmore in college and I'm a freshman we were going out since September and broke up in December and it was really stupid, because I can't remember the reason, but it wasn't serious like cheating, deception, abuse or anything


Well now I haven't seen her since January because we exchanged our gifts and now I have a class with her twice a week at college but it is HUGE like 150 people big lecture hall, how can I approach her easily because it's a mad bum rush to get a seat


I still have feelings for her but I kind of played the dick and said ';That's fine'; when she called before we broke up saying if I dont respect her and I dont seem like I care about her feelings then she'll leave me, soooo wanna help





Ways to get her back and don't give me the ';get over her'; answer because I have had other relationships with girls my junior and senior years but there's just a great understanding I feel with this girl..





thanks





Oh yea it's hard to get a seat next to her because it's a mad bum rush to get a seat in the class, exactley like the begginings of Enemy at the Gates and Saving Private RyanHow do I get my ex-girlfriend back?
Its seems that your feeling for your ex-gf is very strong and I think there is vice-visa feeling your ex-gf has for you since the relationship has been so long. There should be a real reason behind the breakup and you You must find out the real problems in a relationship in order to save the relationship. Is it because of you neglecting her? Or is there a misunderstanding between the two of you? Pinpoint the exact problems in order to solve it once and for all.





There are ways to really communicate with your ex without really having to sit beside her and I don't think you wouldn't want to bother her while having a lecture rite?





You simply need to be yourself and really be flexible. Try to send encouraging words or funny video to your ex once in a while to cheer her up as college life maybe stress sometimes. Be strong as no one needs the needy and this do applies to broken up relationships. You need to stop begging, clinging or exhibiting the behavior of someone who is feeling desperate. Let her think that you have moved on just fine without them by acting strong and moving on. When you've moved on, your ex will realize that they have not. Remember be yourself and have faith that you will get her back if you work on it. All the best to you!How do I get my ex-girlfriend back?
You still know her #, tell her to wait up you have something important to tell her (or something important that you have to give her during that class) and when she does wait, jokingly say you wanted to sit next to her. Boom. Maybe give her some cheesy one stem flower, or toy.





Proceed with conversation from there, talk about her, and how she is doing. The rest you should know what to do, if you talk straight up about the relationship, during class it might get weird.





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Don't listen to these stupid women below, how the hell do you know if she didn't move on to another relationship yet, or worse has a new boyfriend? Why risk getting hurt without knowing her situation in life right now. Don't do anything stupid too soon, you might scare her off.





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I just have to say this after reading what these women are saying. I swear women don't know anything that deals with logical thinking.





They base most of their decisions on their emotions just keep that in mind. They say they like a nice guy but end up with an asshole.





Why? Because the nice guy is boring, and the asshole is fun. Just try and emotionally reconnect with your ex, that's it man. You know her better than anyone else, you know what will make her feel good. If you talk about your past, only mention the good moments that would make her feel great, and remember you guys shared a special bond.





You don't know how much I want to !Chris Brown! these girls below my post.
Call her, text her, try to talk to her and tell her pretty much everything you posted in your question. Make sure if you do get back with her you don't act the way you did before. Hopefully you both respect each other and care about the others feelings. If not, then why be in relationship that can turn out bad. Respect and consideration are important things in ANY kind of relationship.





Good Luck
TELL HER HOW U FEEL AND THAT U DO STILL THINK OF HER,ALL A GIRL REALLY WANTS TO KNOW IS THAT A GUY IS THINKING ABOUT THEM.UNLESS SHE IS SELFISH LIKE SOME GIRLS ARE THEN THE BEST ADVICE I CAN GIVE U IS TOO MOVE ON AND TRY TO PUT URSELF OUT THERE AGAIN ITS NOT WORTH THE PAIN AND THA TEARS TO TRY TO GET SOMEONE THAT DOESNT WANT TO BE WITH U WHILE UR HEART IZ BEIN STOPPED ON I WISH U THAT BEST LOVE U SEEM LIKE A GREAT GUY