Friday, August 20, 2010

How to deal with an ex girlfriend that keeps trying to contact your boyfriend?

We have been together almost 2 years now and his ex girlfriend keeps trying to contact him. I am not sure if it's because she wants to know how their (now our dogs) are or if she is just trying to cause trouble. My boyfriend never responds back to her and when ever she tries to request him as a friend on social networks he rejects her, but it really bugs me. She just recently got engaged and that seems to be when the behavior got worse. Should I say something to her to see what it is she wants or just leave it alone?How to deal with an ex girlfriend that keeps trying to contact your boyfriend?
ignore it and move onHow to deal with an ex girlfriend that keeps trying to contact your boyfriend?
One way for him to get her to stop is for him to simply state that he does not want to hear from her again. He needs to put his foot down. He might not want to be confrontational or look cruel, but he has to be firm about this. It's up to him to tell her that what she's doing is unacceptable and if it continues after that, it's harassment. he can make a complaint to the social networking people to have her removed from their network if it continues. Even the police can get involved.


She's getting married to someone else, but she might be so insecure and unsure about the new relationship that she's trying to go back to something safe... your guy.
Leave it alone or else your involvement could open a whole new can of worms. Just let it be.

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