Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How do I get my ex-girlfriend back, who is now in a new relationship?

My ex-girlfriend and I have been broken up for almost four months now and have kept our distance from one another. However, she has reached out to me a few times since we've broken up. About a 5 weeks ago I received a text saying ';Just so you know I always believed in you'; and this week I received a very kind email once she found out I started a new career.





My ex-girlfriend is now a new relationship with a guy that she rebounded with 3 weeks after her and I broke up. I'm assuming he treats her well and was a shoulder to cry on once we broke up. Now almost 4 months since we've broken up, he's her new boyfriend. He's a fairly unattractive guy, and although I'm not saying I'm the best looking guy either, but I do know from being with her for 2 years that he's not her type.





Many of our problems stemmed from me not finding a solid career. Because it was difficult to find a good career for our future, I was constantly down in the dumps. Since we've been broken up, my entire demeanor has changed because I've found and settled into an excellent career. Now, I can't help to wonder what our relationship might be like if we reconnected.





Considering things are now amicable between us and that she's in a new relationship, how can I possibly win back my ex-girlfriend? I'm willing to be patient, but I want to make a plan. Even though she has moved on into a new relationship, I believe I must at least give it a shot down the line.





Your help is appreciated, thanks...How do I get my ex-girlfriend back, who is now in a new relationship?
Hi





Winning back an ex is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances to win her back increase dramatically.





Here are 3 steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:





Don't Ask Your Ex Girlfriend To Get Back Together





You should never ask her to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!





You're only shot at getting her back is to follow the right steps that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.





But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get girls attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.





So don't ignore your ex texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can't even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.


You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn't dependent on being with her.








Being Jealous Is Not The Way To Go





Listen to me ...SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it can easily be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It's ok if it bothers you, but don't let it show and don't call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don't have any right to tell her what to do.


If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.





Being Flexible Is Very Important





Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Rather be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who takes things easily is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again faster then you might think.





These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back. Anyhow, if you really want to get her back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. There are many guides out there but most of them are crap (I tried too many of them...).





You can learn about the best and most popular guide on how to get your ex girlfriend back that was very helpful for me in this article:





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I hope that you will get your ex girlfriend back soon!How do I get my ex-girlfriend back, who is now in a new relationship?
First off, you need to make sure that you do well in your career, since that obviously plays a significant part in your relationship. While doing that, you also need to work on looking and feeling great. You need to have all the ammo before you can try to get your girl back. Be better in a lot of ways than the other guy. Now once you have done this, slowly try to integrate yourself in her life. A few casual texts would work initially. And then once you have reestablished that relationship, take the next step.


I think the Ex Recovery System by Ashley Kay will help you with tips and advice.
Patience will guide you back to her heart.





Follow the systems in http://www.tosavemyrelationship.com and see how others have succeeded.





Cheers
Stay Away.





You'll look like a psyco.





If she was made to be with you, the future will bring her back to you again. If not, be thankful that you have learned and you have settled. Don't wonder about what could've been. Don't live in the past. You might be ignoring GREAT things that running around you right now bc you are looking back.
It is called a break up, because it's broken. Got to love He's Just Not That Into You.
I can help.





This is EXACTLY what you say:
I think you have an excellent shot of winning her back! The fact that you have moved on to a solid career speaks volumes. I think you need to re-connect with her and give it your best shot!


This site has helped me a lot getting my ex back - http://www.gettingbackex.info. It has tons of articles and videos that help you. I think it will help you with some great ideas and provide valuable in site that you probably never thought of.





Good luck with everything!
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