Friday, August 20, 2010

What do you do when you love your ex girlfriend?

I told her the other night that I loved her still, and she replied by telling me that she wanted to talk about it later. Well today, we were talking about some of her issues, and we were talking about a guy who likes her that she doesn't like and was showing me how the guy put her arm around her and just as an example I put my arm around her and she said ';yeah, that's how'; and she didn't move away or anything and we stayed like that. We then started talking about our relationship and how she wanted to see other people but always thought about us and how she wanted to go to prom with me. Well I had to leave by the end, so we started walking back and we held hands, and when we got back to the house to say good bye, I leaned in for a hug and she kissed me, so I don't really know. She later texted me how she just wanted to hook up with me for one night and just wanted to see other people. So what should I do?What do you do when you love your ex girlfriend?
She's toying with you and thinks she can always go back to you.

She seems fickle, and not someone you could depend on to be loyal if you ever did get back together.

How do i get my ex-girlfriend back?? please help?

ok, so I really am going to need some help on this one. Here is the background info and hopefully someone can help me. I'm now 18 years old. I started dating a girl when i was 16 and she was 14. I was a Junior and she was a Freshman in high school. We fell unimaginably in love with each other. We were each others first everything, so you can imagine the level of comfortableness and closeness between us. Well all through school everything was amazing. We were always together and not only dating but each others best friends. Then i graduated. The summer went great and we still were amazing. Through all of this the intimacy in our relationship remained the same. Then when school started back and now i was in college and she was still a junior in high school things began to change. She would act like she almost didn't want me around and always had an excuse of why she couldn't hang out with me. Finally one night i asked what was wrong. She replied she felt like we were dying. I handled this horribly. I was so scared that the only thing I'd ever know when it came to love was now gone. If I had just played it cool i think things would have settled themselves. Instead I panicked and constantly txted her and called her. I talked to her friends and asked about her and became very distrusting. She then asked for a break because she said i was smothering her and she was extremely mad that i had asked her friends to talk to her for me. Well i just didn't know when to quit because throughout the break i still constantly txted her and talked to her. I basically did everything wrong i possibly could have until she finally said it was over and she couldnt do it anymore. A month later she began dating someone in high school and i hated every second of it. They dated 21 days and near the end i began to contact her again. i told her one day that she was still the only person i could ever imagine myself marrying and having children with one day. Of course we had talked about this as most young and in love couples do. i told her i could only see myself getting old with her and she replied that she didn't love the boy she was with and that she felt the same about me. soon thereafter she had minor oral surgery and just because i care about her i brought her flowers. i had every intention of just telling her i hoped she felt better and leaving them there. only she asked me to stay and sit with her. i did and she asked me to come back again the next night. the next night i did and we kissed for the first time in months. soon thereafter she broke up with the guy she was with. everything seemed to be so smooth. she was always wanting me around but then became angry when she learned of me talking to girls when we were broken up. time went on and we stopped seeing each other again. These days she tells me that too much has happened for us to make it. That she only looks at me as a friend and doesn't have intimate feeling for me. i can't comprehend that though. how is possible to feel nothing for someone you were madly in love with for over two years and was your first at everything from car dates to sex. how can you look at someone who you made plans to spend the rest of your life with and not care about them like a boyfriend still? now a lot of my friends who are girls swear up and down that she does still love me and a part of her does want to be with me, but i just don't see it. she very plainly says that she is over me and doesn't love me like a boyfriend anymore. only she tells other people that the thought of me with another girl makes her sick and that she really does love me. her mother and i have discussed it which may sound odd but she really looks at me like a son and only wants to see me and her daughter make it. she says that she tells her that im not what makes her happy and that too much has went on for us to make it. there again though she was telling one of her friends that she was kinda down on life right now. when they asked why she said i miss last summer. the friend replied well what is different from now and last summer. she replied with my name. Im so very confused and after having finally looked for advice it looks like ive done everything wrong. ive came off as deperate and needy and obsessive. ive basically said i love her and will always be wrapped around her finger. this girl truly does mean the world to me and i would do anything to get her back. i would walk thru hell for her and would give 60 years off my life to hold her for 60 more seconds. Please if there is anyone who has been in a situation like mine who is reading this. i would love to know how to win at this. i want her back and i think the best things to do would be to go about my life like im ok and it doesnt bother me. to maybe see other girls. maybe to completely stop talking to my ex. please though someone talk to me and help me.How do i get my ex-girlfriend back?? please help?
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How to get my ex girlfriend back?! This is really really long, and complex... Detailed answer needed.?

Ok, this is going to be long, because I want no details sparred in this. All information is necessary. I'm 17 and still in high school. (Don't let that bias your answer) I met this girl last year in November, and we became friends, and throughout the spring we started to talk more and more until I finally asked her out in April. She said yes. Around month 4, she said the ';Love'; word, and I returned it. We always got along, never ran out of stuff to talk about. We became sexually active in August, and that lasted through September when we split the first time. She said she just didn't know where her life was headed anymore, and she panicked. We got back together after three days, and from that point on, I was very tentative to how she was acting, I was scared to get hurt again. We couldn't find very much to talk about at all. About a month later, we broke up AGAIN. This time, she called me and didn't know what she was thinking after 45 minutes of separation. I took her back. At this point, this relationship is probably brutally unhealthy, she is mad at me every weekend, we make up during the week, and she gets mad again. She texts other guys constantly, and doesn't really care if I see or what she says to them. I can't say I was much better though, I had been hanging out with other girls. There was no cheating on each other though, I believe she stayed loyal, as did I. In December, I we went out to dinner, and I stupidly said something about her outfit in a joking manner, she took it very seriously, even though I told her she looked great 5 minutes before. Anyway, she intentionally tried to make me jealous. It worked, I got super mad, and felt abused, cornered, and betrayed. I broke up with her after dinner. (Horrible decision, I was distraught 5 minutes later). Later that week, a group of people I knew she was associated with, but didn't know she hated them called me, and fed me multiple multiple lies about her. Needless to say, in my heartbroken state I bought it all. I quickly made a counter move, by heating things up with a gorgeous friend that wanted to help me. She saw, and flipped. She cried to her mom for 5 hours, and fell asleep sobbing. I felt and still feel horrible about believing those people. I should have known better. I know I messed up to the point that we were almost enemies. Now, its about 3 weeks later. She has moved on. I think she likes another guy, I like another girl as well, but I am still hung up on her. What can I possibly do reconcile our relationship? Is there even anything to do? At this point in my life, what I felt with her is all I know of love. I know there are other fish in the sea, but I want a single fish. Should I cut my losses? Is there hope? I need soooo much help... Thanks for anybody that actually reads this whole dramatic story. I hope you can help me!How to get my ex girlfriend back?! This is really really long, and complex... Detailed answer needed.?
Ill tell you now, that girl will end up with another guy anyway. These types of relationships never last through one school year. During the summer everything is cool because she doesn't have to walk around and look at all her other options but once she is back in class all the guys she forgot about are back in her life and flirting harder than ever. There are many biological survival methods in her tactics, the only reason it hurts is because all these decisions are controlled by emotions. I don't know her whole story but ive known the ones that i went to high-school with that seem to have these tendencies. You will NEVER forget this girl, but let her be a lesson of that type of girl. but if you do want her back bad enough you are going to have to modify your persona slightly to come off more mature and just different enough to get her biological need for novelty to kick in. Ive dated one before, lasted 10 months lost my virginity to her and as soon as school started back, she got ';confused, worried'; so she broke it off. Hope this helps.

How to get your ex back?

Me n ma girlfriend broke up 2 months ago.. ok for d reason we broke up.. Coz Thers's a guy in her class who abused her N I beat d hell out of him.. He complained in d office. N ma girlfriend's parents were called.. So she broke up.. Although she agrees dat ma intentions were nt bad N I acctually nt wanted to do it.. Bt she still cant get back with me.. she told me this on phone when she broke up( she was crying too ).... Ok I asked her to come back a lot of times.. Den she started ignorning me.. I pleaded her fr almost 6 weeks bt she was so pissed dat she don't want to talk..( I heard dat she is building up with some new guy) but dat's nt d main source of ma worry COz our realtion was nt dat weak dat some jerk can enter n take her away frm me within 2 weeks.. From last 2 weeks I m nt contacting her.. Following an old saying dat absence make relationship stronger.. Should I continue wat I m doin right nw(nt contacting her) for few day n den try to contact n ask her to make things work...

Or someone can tell me something dat would help me to get her back... Coz I really love her.. N I kno she likes me too even though she's acting like she not..How to get your ex back?

Winning back your ex girlfriend is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.

Here are few steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:

Don't Ask Your Ex Girlfriend To Get Back Together

You should never ask your ex girlfriend to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!

You're only shot at getting your ex girlfriend back is to follow the right steps that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.

But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get girls attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.

So don't ignore someone's texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can't even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.

You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn't dependent on being with her.

Being Jealous Is Not The Way To Go

You must understand that ...SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it will probably be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It's ok if it bothers you, but don't let it show and don't call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don't have any right to tell her what to do.

If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.

Be Flexible

Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. It's better to be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who takes things easily is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again very fast.

These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back. However, if you really want to get her back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. There are many guides out there but most of them are crap (I tried too many of them...).

You can learn about one of the best and most popular guides on how to get your ex girlfriend back in this blog:鈥?/a>

Hope it helps.How to get your ex back?
A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!

There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.

Here is a great website on how to get your ex back. Check it out if you are interested:
start talking to someone else.

make her wonder about who it is your talking to

start hanging out with other chicks.

she'll start to wonder what you're doing with them.


she'll get so fed up,

she'll tell you she wants you back.
well if you want to get her back then play hard to get it works on me all t he time!!!!!!
your kinda coming off as a stalker....its creepy. lay low for awhile. I know that doesn't seem like its going to help but give her space dude....your crushing her air bubble.
dude just give her some space and maybe she will want you back and dont type like that its annoying as hell to read
Why would you want to get back at a ex? Grow up and move on to something better. That's the best getting back ever.
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  • How do I win my ex girlfriend back if we're best friends?

    Hi, i'm almost 18 years old and the girl that i dated is 15 years old. Okay, we had a street law class together and we never really talked to each other. On the last day of school, however; i exchanged my phone number with her but she told me she had her phone taken away from her. Fortunately she contacted me with her ipod and we started talking. Then after 4 days of talking I asked her out and we started dating. During the course of the summer, we only hung out 5 times because she switched back and forth between her mom's house (Spokane) and her dad's house (Coeur D Alene). We also couldn't communicate very well because she had to initiate the conversation first because she was using her ipod and I couldn't text her unless she was contacting me. When we did see each other, we had a blast and it really looked like we were going to go very far! I absolutely love her family, they treat me very well. As summer drew further away, I made the decision to go to a different school than her. I did this, because I thought it was a better situation for me. She was upset with my decision and she was worried that we'd never see each other and that we wouldn't have a great relationship. I tried hard to make it work with her, but she didn't like the idea of dating guys outside of her school. The very next day she told me that I should go to that school and I respected her for that. Before school started again, we hung out one last time and we had a great time together, nothing went wrong. Once school started she wasn't communicating with me and I started to worry a little bit. Eventually, she contacted me on friday for a brief moment. The weekend passed and she didn't communicate with me once. That monday after the weekend she contacted me and we broke up. She stated that she thought of me as the ';big brother that she's never had'; and that she thought of me as family. I was afraid she was interested in another guy and she said not at all. I was completely shocked because we had a great relationship and I couldn't think of anything that would cause her to break up with me. As the days went on, I would bring up that I missed her and that I wanted us to get back together. Most of her responses were ';Idk, idk how i feel.'; We got into a couple minor fights but that's about it. After while, she told me she had a boyfriend and that hit me harder than the breakup itself. When it happened a second time, I lost hope and did something very stupid, I told her that I thought we shouldn't be friends anymore and we weren't for over 3 weeks. Just 3 days before, she stated that I was totally her best guy friend and I just felt horrible. My best friend deleted her number off my phone and I couldn't communicate with her unless she communicated with me. Luckily, 3 weeks later she contacted me and we became friends again. During this time, she's told me that we should go to the movies, go to a concert, and snowboarding together. We went to the concert and she acted like we were dating still. She'd lay her head on my shoulder and I'd put my arm around her. She sat on my lap and let me put my arms around her. Once the concert ended, I stopped her and kissed her on the lips. I could tell that this didn't bother her and she didn't seemed fazed by that. This morning I had hope that we might be back together, but when I asked her if we should give ourselves a second chance she said ';maybe idk.'; People, I love this girl more than anything in thee entire world and I need all the advice I could possibly ask for. I just want her back in my arms, I was so happy with her. It would also be a big help if somebody would guess why she broke up with me and what I can do to increase my chances. I don't want anybody else, I only want her. Please I need your help! :)How do I win my ex girlfriend back if we're best friends?
    She is too young for you. She doesn't know what she wants, and it seems like you do. You can't make someone be your girlfriend if she doesn't want to be! Besides, you could get into deep trouble once you become 18. She will be under age and if you have sex with her (even with her consent) you could end up in jail and on probation for many years.

    Give this girl time to grow up. If you still feel the same way about her when she is 18, pursue it then.How do I win my ex girlfriend back if we're best friends?
    Dude, I feel your need to get her back. If I'm in your shoes I'd definitely do everything I could to win her heart. Heck, been there done that. Firstly, she's really young and you gotta give her some time to grow up. People's feelings changes and raging hormones will make you feel like she's the world and 10 years from now, maybe the thought and emotions will change.

    But IF you really do love her, and you really want her back, then don't be desperate. Just be there for her and wait till she grows older. If you guys still want to get back together by then, then congratulations! If you're really desperate, find out how to totally make her fall in love with you. I hooked up with my friend who sells this guide on his website, you should check it out.

    How can I get my Ex-Girlfriend back?

    Okay I need as much advice and help as possible, hopefully decent advice and no slagging off. I was with my girl for 10 months and it was a bit of a rollarcoaster. In the first 5 weeks of our relationship she got drunk at her prom and kissed a few boys. I let her back in far too quickly as I really felt we had something special. Anyway I let her back in almsot straight away (which was probably a mistake) and she promised me it would never happen again and her friends made her drink way over her limits. Anyways she managed to stick to her promise and did nothing whatsoever to hurt me in the following 9 months. However during this time I began treating her badly and we began having lots of arguements, mostly over trust issues. Basically I banned her from partys and in return she banned me from clubbing (as I don't do partys there terrible). Anyway over time the relationship got amazing but on the other hand unhealthy. After 7 months we actually started to begin thinking about having a kid next year and marriage in 5 years. The unhealthy side of the relationship was because we were controlling eachothers social life. And we started seeing each other 24/7 and whenever we weren't together we would argue due to her paranoia with the amount of girls that would always chat me up etc etc. So anyway she began to hate the amount of girls adding me on msn and facebook and requested for each other to exchange passwords, so we did. A few days later I realised that virtually my entire girl contacts were erased, which I didn't have a problem with as most of them were random and she left my close friends on there. In return I thought hey lets make it even I will do the same with her boy contacts so it all span into a bit of an immature game really. However, last weekend she had a house party at her mams best friends house and I refused to let her go but she had to go. I told her after all the nights out with the boys you've banned me of your going to be selfish enough to go, basically I was stupid, I didn't take into account that her mam and her family would be attending therefore there would be no trouble. When her mam found out about this trust issue we had she went bannanas as we kept it all hidden away. The sunday after the party, her mam was questioning why she didn't participate much during te party, and she told her mam that she just wanted to be around me 24/7 (which was actually true). However when I took her home, shortly after her and her mam had a fight where her mother slapped her in the face and then she scrammed her mam back. After this she was grounded for a week, stripped off all contact for a week until her step dad came back from work to discuss the issue. No phone, no nothing. So we weren't used to this and started getitng rather sick. Anyway we thought **** this and agreed for one day of the week to see eachotehr behind closed doors up her school 9only for her sister to spot my car and go home and tell her mam). Anyway when she found out about me controlling her facebook and msn and partys she lost her head and cut me off completely. 2 days after this break up I've been suffering like hell, and I've been told by one of her friends that she has been the same and isn't attending school until after easter. I realised now that I should have just let the past be the past and not use it against her and treat her badly for what she did. I became a control freak and my paranoia was actually bigger than hers which she was unaware of. It seems as if we are over for good. However my mam seen them both in the town centre earlier today and her mam said for there to be any chance whatsoever of her changing her mind I would have to change the way I am completely and improve as I was controlling her duaghters life (she fails to realise that all her daughter wanted was to be with me 24/7) but at ages 18 and 17 maybe that's just unhealthy. Basically I just need some huge advice. I've written a letter to her which I am going to post into her works, letting her know how much pain im in and how sorry I am as we promise to be together forever. It's such a sad story and such a sour way to end a relationship of such brute strength. Her mam told my father that she had become my posession and that I would have to change my ways to have any chance of her changing her mind. She told my mother that after some time to think about things if I am man enough to go up to her mam's house and talk to her then I could. So next week I plan on doing this. Me and her parents have never been on the same wavelength but vice-versa my parents love her too bits and today when she seen my mother broke down in tears and hugged her for half hour infront of her mam. Well I had this ever-growing fear that she would listen to her mother and just move on but her best boy mate told me she loves me too much and now my mam has said she would be highly suprised if that was the case. And actually she was worried about me moving on also! I just need some advicHow can I get my Ex-Girlfriend back?
    When you find urself,, u'll find your woman, real talk. you need to get over her quickly! (remember!) If u cant get over,, u will go underd to . i hate when people waisting their trying to get an ex back... u need to to get ur money right dude....damn...

    Can i get my ex girlfriend back?

    we been broke up for 3 months i broke up with her because she was to clingy. i was stupid but i want her back. she dated my friend for four days and they broke up two days ago. this is a letter i wrote her.

    dear angel( a nickname i gave her)

    hey how you been? we'll hopefully good.. but anways let me get to the point of why im writing you this letter. honestly i been thinking about you lately and its hard to get you off my

    mind. i mean all the good times we had. from you being really shy, to us talking on the phone late at night, spending time at the movies, your house, at the park, or out shopping.

    it really didnt matter what we did we always managed to have a good time together. the 9 months we were together were the best part of my life

    and i dont care how long i pretended not to like you, but the truth is i never stopped thinking about you.

    the reason i been ignoring you is beecause i know your family most likely doesnt like me and i understand.

    i dont blame you if you dont even like me. but just know you will always have a special place in my heart no matter what.

    i miss talking to you. hopefully we can be friends, but if not its ok. talk to you later hopefully.

    p.s. keep this letter to yourself please. im 19 shes 18. i just turned 19Can i get my ex girlfriend back?
    Go for it! Looks like she hasnt forgotten u either..Good Luck!