How to take GOOD action into getting back with your ex?

i'm trying my best in getting back with my ex-girlfriend without being a pest %26amp; being annoying. i have a plan to surprise her [im positive it will work]...but i wanna surprise her without actually looking like a stalker [i know where she works...she told me]...i don't wanna waste any more time...but does anyone have any tips on how to take action without sounding needy %26amp; annoying??





anyone!!!!!!!!!How to take GOOD action into getting back with your ex?
I wouldn't do anything unless you really think you have another chance w/ her!!Maybe try and be her friend again first and then go from there!!I wouldn't just show up at her work,you may embarrass her,and p*ss her off!!How to take GOOD action into getting back with your ex?
I know it sounds harsh but... Try going out with another girl immediately and let your ex see you! Trust me it works. She will see that you are not a clingy person (which tends to be an


unattractive quality) Writing letters and sending flowers and acting like you can't live without her just puts out the impression that you are dependent on her. Be the Man and show her that you should be the one that she is chasing. You don't have to be a jerk to do this. Be nice about it.


Hope I have provided you some insight.
Send them, don't show up with them. Make it a game. Send them to her work with a note, and say something like an inside joke only the 2 of you would know or something that give you up but it's not extremly obvious. Like she has to think about it for awhile.


While she's at work or when she gets home put some more on her front doorstep and give her another clue as to it's you.


The day after (if she hasn't called by then) text her or email her and see if she'd be up to do something small, like see a movie or go bowling, something fun to show her that you're the fun guy she wants to be with!!
her fav FLOWERS, her fav CHOCOLATE, her fav STUFFED ANIMAL.. and a LETTER not cheesy card.. in the card write down exactly what you feel. Let her know how wrong you were, and let her know that you'll change into whatever she wants.





But don't over do it all in the letter, ohh and at the end of your letter, write down.. 'Please meet me at (Wherever) I'll be waiting to talk to you!' It'll be soo romantic, and she will be taken back by it.





Just make sure that you ready to tell her everything wants, but that only if you going to do all that stuff, threes no reason to talk b.u.l.l .s.h.i.t. If you no going to live up to it.





Wish you good-luck.. you seem like a good guy. Hope shes sees it.
Well Go to her work with flowers and chocolate .. and it also depends on how you broke up in the first place.. if it involved cheating i'm not sure if its going to work.. if its not right for each other saying you just want one more chance. When you get there say something like how about coffee on saturday or something or to lunch
Just be really relaxed about it. Tell her you'd like to give it another shot and let her do the talking from there. If she wants to she'll tell you. Dont talk too much cuz that is whats gonna make you look needy and/or annoying.





Good LUck!!
Do what you did to get together with her the first time...but you also might want to question why you broke up in the first place.





Just a note: The question was how to ';get back WITH your ex'; not ';get back AT your ex';...........
If you guys ended it .. wouldn't you think that if she wanted you back, she wouldn't made a move? What if she's already moved on? That isn't a smart choice if she wants to move on. You'd be a distraction.
INSTEAD OF SHOWING UP AT THE JOB SEND HER FLOWERS AND FOOD FOR HER BREAK AND STUFF.ADD NICE LITTLE LETTERS TO GO WITH IT AND LET HER KNOW THAT YOU WANT ANOTHER CHANCE TO MAKE THINGS RIGHT.
DO NOT go to her work! thats totally stalker if you aren't WITH her anymore.


You need to BACK off and let her breathe


maybe you were suffocating her ??


get a HOBBY
If she is your ex than she is your ex for a reason leave her alone and move on with your life. Goodluck
who broke up with hwo..





she broke up with u then it will be weird.





if it doesnt work out **** it, dont not get hurt =(
go with the flow, if it's meant to be it'll be.
ask him on a date and not go
no get over her