Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Ex girlfriend back after months of not talking?

Have you ever been dumped or dumped someone, and then you stopped talking to them for several months, possibly hooked up with other people, and then eventually start talking again, and get back together with them?





How did this happen? What'd you do? Girls, what made you give him a second chance?





Don't answer if your just gonna say ';ex's are ex's for a reason, never go back!'; blah blah... I understand people have had negative experiences with their ex's but I'm looking for those of you who had positive experiences, and got their ex's back even when it seemed hopeless.Ex girlfriend back after months of not talking?
Hi





Winning back your ex girlfriend is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances to win her back increase dramatically.





Here are helpful steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:





Don't Ask Your Ex Girlfriend To Get Back Together





You should never ask her to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!





You're only shot at getting your ex girlfriend back is to follow the right steps that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.





But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get your ex girlfriend attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.





So don't ignore her texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can't even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.


You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn't dependent on being with her.








Don't Be Jealous





Listen to me ...SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it will probably be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It's ok if it bothers you, but don't let it show and don't call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don't have any right to tell her what to do.


If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.





Be Flexible





Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Instead, be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who takes things easily is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again very fast.





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I hope you will get your ex girlfriend soon!Ex girlfriend back after months of not talking?
had a relationship 2 years on %26amp; off all the time.


there was a time when we broke up for 2 months and absolutly no contact but then we found ways to see eachother and make excuses to talk


i just felt alone alot %26amp; really missed him


we're broken up right now %26amp; i do feel hopeless %26amp; well we're talking again but just as friends a part of me is hoping we'll get back together but i know we broke up for a reason.


i guess just do what your heart tells you even if it does sound corny lol.


goodluck
i was with my girlfriend for one year and nothing had gone wrong. couple days after anniversary she decided we needed to ';take a break';. so we went our separate ways. i started talking to another girl and it got a little more involved than my ex wanted it to. she told me to never f***in talk to her ever again. went three days apologizing to her and she finally came around to talking to me again. but she wasn't looking for a relationship anymore. then after two months of small talk she told me she missed me and wanted to be happy again. so i got back with her a couple days later and we have been together ever since. you just have to watch what you say. dont upset her or say anything that might have caused the first breakup because youre already on thin ice as it is. i haven't made her mad or upset or anything ever since the day i was told to never talk to her ever again. hope this helps! :)

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