Monday, August 16, 2010

How do I get my ex girlfriend back?

Ok, so I dated the most amazing girl in my life. We were together for 5 months and during this 5 months we told ourselves how we were the perfect person for each other and how we would never be able to find anybody better. We even talked about marriage, even if the relationship just started. But then, about 1 month ago, she moved because her college is too far. We were only able to see us the weekends, and it wasn't always nice. Both of us are studying, have a lot of homework, we work when we have time, we have a couple of other activities so when we were seeing each other, it wasn't as nice as before. We were hurting each other more than we were having pleasure. Because I wasn't seeing her a lot I called her a lot and became kind of addicted to her. This is a thing she told me bothered her so 2 weeks ago, she asked me if I would accept to have a week where we wouldn't talk to each other. It was hard but I accepted. During this week, I asked myself what made it not work like this, and I realized the more I was becoming ';addict'; to her, the more I was pushing her away. I decided that when we would get back together, I would be ready to change. When the weak was over, we decided that it really couldn't work. We agreed to break up. The thing is that she told me she still loved me (so did I) and that if real love couldn't work like this, how would she be able to love again (I think the same). It just couldn't work at this time. This bothers me a lot, and I try to tell myself there are hundreds of other girls, but in a way, I don't want to forget her in case it would work again. I want her back and read some things on internet where people tell you that the most important things to get your girlfriend back are to keep in contact with her so that she always have you on her mind, make her feel that you can live without her even do activities with other girls (not necessarily going out, just like do activities) and then like meet her and remember the good moments of your relationship with her. The problem is I don't know if it's the right thing to do and if it is, I would like some tips and tricks so that I don't mess anything up. Also, I think it may be just a period of adaptation for her, she may need some time to get used to the beat of her new life, but I don't want to only put hopes on this.


P.S. I forgot to tell you, it is her birthday in 3 weeks and when we broke up, I gave her a beautiful necklace made with gold and diamonds and asked her if she could wear it sometimes and think about us and she told me she wears it. I had also bought tickets to go see a show of one of her favorite musician and we both agreed to go together as friends because it would be fun. The thing is that the show is in one month and until there I don't know what to do so that she doesn't forget me or do anything stupid. And if you think the show would be a good occasion to like get back together, like maybe at the supper before talk and anything, just tell me.


Finally, I would just like you to tell me if things can still work between us and if yes, how to get her back? You can comment everything I said if you want, just give me tips?


(Another P.S. I know it may not be super useful, but also sexually I was the first guy with who she ever had an orgasm so I think it can't be because of this, we were always having good sex)How do I get my ex girlfriend back?
Ok, well it sounds like she's not into clinginess.


Some girls prefer it when you give them the personal space they need, while others enjoy knowing you think about them all the time.


If she's the one who feels it's not working then pretend you agree.


Spend time talking to other girls and have a wide spread social life with females. This is also known as playing hard to get. Show her what she's missing out on, and soon enough she'll be wishing she'd stayed with you.


And remember that it's ok to go out with other people just dont get to into the person if you're planning on getting back with your ex.hope i've helped, and good luck ! xHow do I get my ex girlfriend back?
A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!


There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.


Here is a great website on how to get your ex back. Check it out if you are interested:





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Winning back an ex is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances to win her back increase dramatically.





Here are few steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:





Don't Ask Her To Get Back Together





You should never ask her to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!





You're only shot at getting your ex girlfriend back is to do the right things that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.





But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get girls attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.





So don't ignore your ex texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can't even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.


You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show her that your happiness isn't dependent on being with her.








Being Jealous Is Not The Way To Go





You must understand that ...SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it will probably be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It's ok if it bothers you, but don't let it show and don't call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don't have any right to tell her what to do.


If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.





Being Flexible Is Very Important





Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Instead, be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who doesn't take things too seriously is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again faster then you might think.





These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back. Anyhow, if you really serious about getting your ex girlfriend back soon as possible I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back.


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I hope that you will get your ex girlfriend back soon!
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