Guys who have cheated & got back with their ex-gf: How do I know he truly regrets cheating on me?

We dated for almost 6 years. he started seeing someone 2 weeks before we actually broke up and got into a relationship with the other woman soon after. They dated for about 5 months until he decided that she is such a negative person and almost suicidal. He kept in contact with me halfway through their relationship then we finally hung out and he started to feel regret and slowly let her go but she would take drugs and threaten to kill herself if he left her. He had to stick around a bit longer and pretend to be her boyfriend until he could get past her negativity and leave her alone.





It has been almost 7 months since he ended his relationship with the negative girl %26amp; we've also been talking. We just recently discussed why he cheated and went through that phase. However, I still feel angry and disgusted that he had sex with her even though we weren't together. I guess it's because we were each other's firsts and there was no one else. I don't know how i'm going to get past this %26amp; trust him again.





I want to know why guys cheat after being in a long relationship then all of a sudden go back to us. How do I know he really regrets his mistake? I want to take him back, but not too easily... I just don't know if what he's showing me now is worthy of taking him back. How did you get your ex-girlfriend back after you cheated on her?





He gave me 4 promise rings that I wore almost everyday %26amp; I gave them back to him when we broke up. He wears one with my name on it everyday on his pinky. It even left a tan line on his finger. I told him that I couldn't hold on to them for as long as we don't have a relationship.





He's taking me out on an official date this thursday to watch Goapele. She sang our song: Closer. I have a feeling that he's going to ask me to be his girlfriend w/ the rings I gave back to him. As sweet as the setting may be almost perfect, I'm not sure if I am ready...





I dont want to take him back too soon to think that i'm that easy. Is 7 months a long time?Guys who have cheated %26amp; got back with their ex-gf: How do I know he truly regrets cheating on me?
Well try not to be a complete door mat right away. You treat it as if there's teams guy vs chicks. There's only people and this guy is a douche. You can never take him back ever because he knows he can get away with it now. If he really loved you he would have stayed with you in the first place. Your wasting your time move on and date decent guys that don't sleep around.Guys who have cheated %26amp; got back with their ex-gf: How do I know he truly regrets cheating on me?
Once a cheater always a .....