Getting your ex-girlfriend back?

I got dumped a month ago, a couple of days of pleading now and then failed completely, and now we're barely on speaking terms. I'm trying to recover but it's taking a lot longer than I expected.





There are all these articles and ebooks and programs online from 'dating coaches' that claim to give you advice or even training on how to get your ex back, are any of them for real?


http://www.google.com.sa/search?hl=en%26amp;q=get+your+ex-girlfriend+back%26amp;aq=f%26amp;oq=%26amp;safe=active





Did any guy here have this experience, only with a good ending?Getting your ex-girlfriend back?
To be quite honest and blunt with you, what goes around comes around.





If you do this to her, it will most likely just rebound back at you. Sure, she broke up with you.





It suck and it hurts. But how will getting back at her help you in anyway? It won't make you feel better to see her really hurt when you get back at her. Deep down, it will hurt you too.





Anyways, if you really care about her, you wouldn't be getting back at her. If you deal with the break-up in a mature and sensible way, then who knows? Maybe one day she will see that you are that kind of guy, and she will come back to you. Otherwise, don't get back at her. It's only going to make the situation worse.