URGENT! Please help. How do I get my ex girlfriend back?!?

My girlfriend and I of a year broke up about a week ago. We had a bad month, argued about stupid little things, and it ended up affecting us. When we broke up we both agreed that we were still in love, that we were the love of each others lives, and we'd still be there for each other. My girlfriend was the one to actually suggest the break up, citing that she needed space and time to stand on her own two feet. But since the break up, she's called and texted everyday. Right after the break up it was to tell me she missed me/thinking of me/loved me/was doing this for us. We got into some fights last week because she was upset that I wanted her to take the time she needed, our friends were being really negative about each other, etc. She told me Wednesday that she was glad she walked away and that she never wanted to see me again based on these little fights. But yesterday, she was calling apologizing, telling me she was broken and didn't know what to do. I love this girl more than life, and I have some people telling me to give her space and just back off, and others telling me to tell her how I really feel and see how she reacts. I wrote her a letter and I wanted to see what someone thought of it, this is what I want to say to her:


So I feel kind of silly doing this, mostly because I feel like every minute since you broke up with me, I feel as if I鈥檝e spent it telling you how much I love you. You think I would take the hint, let go, and move on, but I can鈥檛. You鈥檙e the love of my life. My everything. You鈥檙e the first person I think about when I wake up and the last person I think about before I go to sleep. I was made to be with you. We went through a bad month. A really bad month and we both hurt each other and hurt ourselves. I know things are hard, they seem practically impossible. I know that you鈥檙e broken because I鈥檓 broken, too. You鈥檝e been attacked and pushed away, and I honestly know how you feel, because I have, too. Maybe you did mean the things you said the other day, that you were glad you walked away and that you never wanted to see me again, and if you did, I will walk away and disappear for good. But if you didn鈥檛, if there鈥檚 the slightest chance in the world that you also meant and still feel that I鈥檓 the love of your life, that you are in love with me, I鈥檓 telling you that I feel the same. That I will not walk away or leave you. I鈥檒l fight with everything I have for you and us to get us back to the same place we were when we could fall asleep knowing there鈥檚 nothing more we need than each other. I promise and I swear I will do whatever it takes. You see, you鈥檙e a better person than I am. And it made me a better person to be around you. I don鈥檛 know, maybe we were just a dream. Maybe I went to bed and imagined us the way we both know we could be. But I swear, nothing has ever felt more real. And if we both just quit now, it鈥檒l disappear forever. I know we could both go on with our lives and be fine, but I know what we could be like together, and I choose us.


Should I say that, or just walk away and leave her alone??URGENT! Please help. How do I get my ex girlfriend back?!?
Just write her an apology as long as this question. No prob. Throw a rose in with it too. Good to go.URGENT! Please help. How do I get my ex girlfriend back?!?
Tell her about your closing thoughts in this question.
tell her u want to get back with her and please look at my questoin.
I think you should give it to her. If she doesn't accept your offer, then it was sort of like a closure. You try, you know? And if she is really wanting this to be the end of your relationship, you just have to grin and bear it. Walk away. Hurt in the privacy of your own home. Mope, you deserve to. But don't let her see it. I wrote a poem, actually about this. When I had my heart broken. It's on myspace, and I'm on my school computer, so I can't go copy and paste it. :(





As a woman, young girl, chick, whatever you want to call me,


I know there is nothing more painful than seeing a guy we care about hurt, and in pain. It makes us feel guilty, so therefore she'd probably get back together with you out of guilt, but is that really worth it? Would you rather her be with you because she wants to, or because she feels like she HAS to.





I'm not saying she is like most women, but there is that possibility it might happen. So my advice to you, is give it to her.


Let her read it. Let her know how much you care about her, and if she still walks away after that, her loss. Her stupidity.


Good luck!


You should e-mail me and tell me the outcome when it happens. :)
Wow! You're letter sounds like something out of a movie. I would send it - as long as you prepare your heart to hear something it doesn't want to. It's beautiful. It may not win her heart but at least you'll know once and for all where you stand and whether or not you need to move on. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
The letter is really good and sweet. Both people were right the ones that told you to give her space and the ones telling you to get back with her. She is confused about what she wants, but she knows she loves you. The space will help her figure out what she lost was someone great. But you don't want to give her too much space because you don't want to lose her. She doesn't hate you, and she doesn't want you out of her life, shes only saying that cause she is hurting. Give her the letter, romantic dinner and and tell her how you really feel. Only a matter of time and you will be with her again, cause what i read yall are both in deep love with each other, people just need their time apart sometimes.
This is heavy stuff and it's good to see that you're not afraid of your emotions. You need to step back a little, take a breather, and allow yourself a little time really think this through. Confusion doesn't reverse itself with a love letter. Time will tell if you two are meant to be together. Counseling is a good option, if there are real feelings on both sides it's a good way to see what you're doing wrong or right and the same for her. Do you think maybe she's a little afraid or is pushing back because it's too serious for her? You need to be selfish, take time for you to make sure this is the REAL deal.
Hmmm, maybe you should be writing my love letter for me, I think that's pretty damn good. Only you can say if you should send it though; Is she the kind of girl that will respond to that? Some will think it's the greatest gesture in the world, and others will just say ';oh please';, and see it as desperate. Nobody on here knows her though, obviously.





If you do decide to send it, then afterwards play it cool. It will be hard, but dont go pestering her, or you will look desperate. Wait for her to come to you. Hope that helps dude.
Getting your ex back can be very difficult, considering we often act on pure emotions than on rational thinking. Your letter seems to fit this description, as often when we try too hard and smother the other person we often end up pushing them away.





My best friend recently went through a breakup and found a website that she claims was the sole reason she was able to get back with her ex.





I was a bit skeptical at first, but it was pretty remarkable witnessing how she was able to get her ex back after she followed the advice from the website. The tactics are a bit unconventional, but they absolutely work - my friend is proof.





Here is the website if you are interested - hope it can do for you what it did for my friend:





http://winbackyourextoday.blogspot.com/
you both really need to decide what you want. If you want to try again, take it slow. If she wants to end it, be strong and accept it, and move on and don't let her contact you.





contact with ex's is hard and prolongs the pain from healing and moving on.

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