Tuesday, August 10, 2010

If your ex-girlfriend kept threatening suicide to get you back, what would you do?

If the woman you carefully and gently broke up with attempted suicide and went to the hospital right after the break-up and kept threatening to commit suicide if you didn't get back with her, would you go back to her or how would you handle it?If your ex-girlfriend kept threatening suicide to get you back, what would you do?
Sorry to hear about your ex. This is serious buisness though. You need to talk to her family and friends and get her some help. You know she just wants attention but there might be something else that is making her act out this way. You liked her at one point, so you should help her get through this so you can both move on.If your ex-girlfriend kept threatening suicide to get you back, what would you do?
well to be honest i use to be one of those girls i had a bf and when he broke up with me i kept saying i would kill myself so he wouldnt leave me and because i was so hurt and i felt like i had nothing else or nobody else but him..but to tell you the truth your ex is not goin to kill herself she is just using anything or tryna do anything to get your attention.. what she wants is for you to feel guilty and come back to her anyway possible ...but trust me she wont do anything....it's just her way of makin you worry...so dont dorry at all . . .she will get over it , your ex just need some Freakin heLP! thats plain and Simple believe me . . .
wow, that is pretty heavy. I think I would tell her that you feel there are things that you both need to work out in some type of ';couple's therapy.'; Even if you really don't want to be with her, I think it might be wise to indirectly act like it, in order to get her some help. No one would want to live with being the reason someone committed suicide. I would contact some mental health professionals, and her family and explain the situation. I would then follow their advice. Good Luck, and I hope she gets help.
There is nothing you can do...except maybe tell her you care about her and obviously you do...so just tell her that you want to help her get through this and help her realize that you can't make someone love you like that....it would be a lie and she will find someone that will love her the way she deserves to be loved.I think you should try to be friends with her until she is ready to let go...maybe you can go to counseling with her and have a professional help you and her get through the break up.But I really don't think you need to stay with someone you don't love. I think that you will always love someone you had a relationship with even when the passion has gone there is still that love you have for the person they are. I hope you the best.
Breakups are never easy. Sounds like you are having a doozy. You've obviously decided that you don't want to be with her so don't let her pressure you into getting back with her. You would just resent her. The best thing to do is to try and have a talk with her parents or someone close to her and tell them that you are worried about her and ask them to help her through this time. Then you need to completely and utterly disappear from her life. Don't talk to her or answer her calls or anything. That is the only way she will be able to move on unfortunately.
ignore them. i had the same problem a couple months ago. i listened and got back with him and my life was miserable!! and i finally realized he wouldnt do it and i did what i should have done a long time ago and left him. he called and called. i just ignored it and didnt answer. 5 or 6 months later he left me alone
Thats emotional blackmail and she shouldnt be doing that to you!


Whatever you do, dont get back with her because that isnt fair on you.


You should call up her family/friends and tell them that your worried and that she's been making threats.





You should also get her some professional help.
Don't go back with her if you don't want too. I would suggest a therapist or something. She obviously has some inner problems. Even though your not together you need to watch out for her. You still care about her i'm sure so just get her too see someone.





Best of luck to you
I had a friend that was like that.





Just let her get over it.


Do not get back with her


because you are just allowing it to happen again


when you break up with in the future.





She doesn't need your pity,


she needs professional help.
She's just threatening you as a form of control. You shouldn't get back together with her out of pity. If you have to, informing the police about these threats may be the best thing to do. They'll find her some professional help.
Call the authorities. Don't be blackmailed into staying with somebody you don't want to be with.
I wouldn't go back out with her but i would try to get her some help, tell her she is not worth me. Then say you can find someone better than me who wouldn't put her through this.
Tell her you can be her friend but not partner right now in your life and if shes goes through with her threats she will never know if you could make it as a couple in the future.
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I wouldn't get back with her out of guilt. Instead, I'd call the police on her and hopefully something can get done through them. She really needs professional and psychological help.
is she really suicidal? ask yourself if she'd really do it. if you think she's capable of actually going through with it talk to someone..tell her family.
call an adult!








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Most likely she will not hurt her self, stop all communication with her and call police when she tells you that.
HAHA with my X? Or now I consider her trash I'd be happy if shes gone she made my one year with her pure hell and sorrow. She can do it cause I'm not coming.
She needs psycological help, not a boyfriend!!
she might juss be sayin that to get yu bak...but if not if shes that painful that yu had 2 breakup wit her 4get bout her!!!plzz answer minee i need help 2!!!!!!!!!!!
Tell the people at the hospital women needs help.
try to talk with her and tell a doctor or someone she needs help also if she is still heart try to hook her up with someone
';Talk to a family member of hers and don't let her black male you with that';.
get her in a mental hospital or something
get her put into a mental institution.
One of my exes used to do that I always told her ';go ahead make my day';
try to pray for her
LET HER


shes a cray bi*ch
God no! get yourself the hell out!
take her to the crazy house ASAP

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