What do you do when you love your ex girlfriend?

I told her the other night that I loved her still, and she replied by telling me that she wanted to talk about it later. Well today, we were talking about some of her issues, and we were talking about a guy who likes her that she doesn't like and was showing me how the guy put her arm around her and just as an example I put my arm around her and she said ';yeah, that's how'; and she didn't move away or anything and we stayed like that. We then started talking about our relationship and how she wanted to see other people but always thought about us and how she wanted to go to prom with me. Well I had to leave by the end, so we started walking back and we held hands, and when we got back to the house to say good bye, I leaned in for a hug and she kissed me, so I don't really know. She later texted me how she just wanted to hook up with me for one night and just wanted to see other people. So what should I do?What do you do when you love your ex girlfriend?
She's toying with you and thinks she can always go back to you.


She seems fickle, and not someone you could depend on to be loyal if you ever did get back together.

How do i get my ex-girlfriend back?? please help?

ok, so I really am going to need some help on this one. Here is the background info and hopefully someone can help me. I'm now 18 years old. I started dating a girl when i was 16 and she was 14. I was a Junior and she was a Freshman in high school. We fell unimaginably in love with each other. We were each others first everything, so you can imagine the level of comfortableness and closeness between us. Well all through school everything was amazing. We were always together and not only dating but each others best friends. Then i graduated. The summer went great and we still were amazing. Through all of this the intimacy in our relationship remained the same. Then when school started back and now i was in college and she was still a junior in high school things began to change. She would act like she almost didn't want me around and always had an excuse of why she couldn't hang out with me. Finally one night i asked what was wrong. She replied she felt like we were dying. I handled this horribly. I was so scared that the only thing I'd ever know when it came to love was now gone. If I had just played it cool i think things would have settled themselves. Instead I panicked and constantly txted her and called her. I talked to her friends and asked about her and became very distrusting. She then asked for a break because she said i was smothering her and she was extremely mad that i had asked her friends to talk to her for me. Well i just didn't know when to quit because throughout the break i still constantly txted her and talked to her. I basically did everything wrong i possibly could have until she finally said it was over and she couldnt do it anymore. A month later she began dating someone in high school and i hated every second of it. They dated 21 days and near the end i began to contact her again. i told her one day that she was still the only person i could ever imagine myself marrying and having children with one day. Of course we had talked about this as most young and in love couples do. i told her i could only see myself getting old with her and she replied that she didn't love the boy she was with and that she felt the same about me. soon thereafter she had minor oral surgery and just because i care about her i brought her flowers. i had every intention of just telling her i hoped she felt better and leaving them there. only she asked me to stay and sit with her. i did and she asked me to come back again the next night. the next night i did and we kissed for the first time in months. soon thereafter she broke up with the guy she was with. everything seemed to be so smooth. she was always wanting me around but then became angry when she learned of me talking to girls when we were broken up. time went on and we stopped seeing each other again. These days she tells me that too much has happened for us to make it. That she only looks at me as a friend and doesn't have intimate feeling for me. i can't comprehend that though. how is possible to feel nothing for someone you were madly in love with for over two years and was your first at everything from car dates to sex. how can you look at someone who you made plans to spend the rest of your life with and not care about them like a boyfriend still? now a lot of my friends who are girls swear up and down that she does still love me and a part of her does want to be with me, but i just don't see it. she very plainly says that she is over me and doesn't love me like a boyfriend anymore. only she tells other people that the thought of me with another girl makes her sick and that she really does love me. her mother and i have discussed it which may sound odd but she really looks at me like a son and only wants to see me and her daughter make it. she says that she tells her that im not what makes her happy and that too much has went on for us to make it. there again though she was telling one of her friends that she was kinda down on life right now. when they asked why she said i miss last summer. the friend replied well what is different from now and last summer. she replied with my name. Im so very confused and after having finally looked for advice it looks like ive done everything wrong. ive came off as deperate and needy and obsessive. ive basically said i love her and will always be wrapped around her finger. this girl truly does mean the world to me and i would do anything to get her back. i would walk thru hell for her and would give 60 years off my life to hold her for 60 more seconds. Please if there is anyone who has been in a situation like mine who is reading this. i would love to know how to win at this. i want her back and i think the best things to do would be to go about my life like im ok and it doesnt bother me. to maybe see other girls. maybe to completely stop talking to my ex. please though someone talk to me and help me.How do i get my ex-girlfriend back?? please help?
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How to get my ex girlfriend back?! This is really really long, and complex... Detailed answer needed.?

Ok, this is going to be long, because I want no details sparred in this. All information is necessary. I'm 17 and still in high school. (Don't let that bias your answer) I met this girl last year in November, and we became friends, and throughout the spring we started to talk more and more until I finally asked her out in April. She said yes. Around month 4, she said the ';Love'; word, and I returned it. We always got along, never ran out of stuff to talk about. We became sexually active in August, and that lasted through September when we split the first time. She said she just didn't know where her life was headed anymore, and she panicked. We got back together after three days, and from that point on, I was very tentative to how she was acting, I was scared to get hurt again. We couldn't find very much to talk about at all. About a month later, we broke up AGAIN. This time, she called me and didn't know what she was thinking after 45 minutes of separation. I took her back. At this point, this relationship is probably brutally unhealthy, she is mad at me every weekend, we make up during the week, and she gets mad again. She texts other guys constantly, and doesn't really care if I see or what she says to them. I can't say I was much better though, I had been hanging out with other girls. There was no cheating on each other though, I believe she stayed loyal, as did I. In December, I we went out to dinner, and I stupidly said something about her outfit in a joking manner, she took it very seriously, even though I told her she looked great 5 minutes before. Anyway, she intentionally tried to make me jealous. It worked, I got super mad, and felt abused, cornered, and betrayed. I broke up with her after dinner. (Horrible decision, I was distraught 5 minutes later). Later that week, a group of people I knew she was associated with, but didn't know she hated them called me, and fed me multiple multiple lies about her. Needless to say, in my heartbroken state I bought it all. I quickly made a counter move, by heating things up with a gorgeous friend that wanted to help me. She saw, and flipped. She cried to her mom for 5 hours, and fell asleep sobbing. I felt and still feel horrible about believing those people. I should have known better. I know I messed up to the point that we were almost enemies. Now, its about 3 weeks later. She has moved on. I think she likes another guy, I like another girl as well, but I am still hung up on her. What can I possibly do reconcile our relationship? Is there even anything to do? At this point in my life, what I felt with her is all I know of love. I know there are other fish in the sea, but I want a single fish. Should I cut my losses? Is there hope? I need soooo much help... Thanks for anybody that actually reads this whole dramatic story. I hope you can help me!How to get my ex girlfriend back?! This is really really long, and complex... Detailed answer needed.?
Ill tell you now, that girl will end up with another guy anyway. These types of relationships never last through one school year. During the summer everything is cool because she doesn't have to walk around and look at all her other options but once she is back in class all the guys she forgot about are back in her life and flirting harder than ever. There are many biological survival methods in her tactics, the only reason it hurts is because all these decisions are controlled by emotions. I don't know her whole story but ive known the ones that i went to high-school with that seem to have these tendencies. You will NEVER forget this girl, but let her be a lesson of that type of girl. but if you do want her back bad enough you are going to have to modify your persona slightly to come off more mature and just different enough to get her biological need for novelty to kick in. Ive dated one before, lasted 10 months lost my virginity to her and as soon as school started back, she got ';confused, worried'; so she broke it off. Hope this helps.

How to get your ex back?

Me n ma girlfriend broke up 2 months ago.. ok for d reason we broke up.. Coz Thers's a guy in her class who abused her N I beat d hell out of him.. He complained in d office. N ma girlfriend's parents were called.. So she broke up.. Although she agrees dat ma intentions were nt bad N I acctually nt wanted to do it.. Bt she still cant get back with me.. she told me this on phone when she broke up( she was crying too ).... Ok I asked her to come back a lot of times.. Den she started ignorning me.. I pleaded her fr almost 6 weeks bt she was so pissed dat she don't want to talk..( I heard dat she is building up with some new guy) but dat's nt d main source of ma worry COz our realtion was nt dat weak dat some jerk can enter n take her away frm me within 2 weeks.. From last 2 weeks I m nt contacting her.. Following an old saying dat absence make relationship stronger.. Should I continue wat I m doin right nw(nt contacting her) for few day n den try to contact n ask her to make things work...





Or someone can tell me something dat would help me to get her back... Coz I really love her.. N I kno she likes me too even though she's acting like she not..How to get your ex back?
Hello





Winning back your ex girlfriend is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.





Here are few steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:





Don't Ask Your Ex Girlfriend To Get Back Together





You should never ask your ex girlfriend to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!





You're only shot at getting your ex girlfriend back is to follow the right steps that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.





But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get girls attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.





So don't ignore someone's texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can't even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.


You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn't dependent on being with her.








Being Jealous Is Not The Way To Go





You must understand that ...SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it will probably be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It's ok if it bothers you, but don't let it show and don't call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don't have any right to tell her what to do.


If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.





Be Flexible





Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. It's better to be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who takes things easily is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again very fast.





These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back. However, if you really want to get her back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. There are many guides out there but most of them are crap (I tried too many of them...).





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Hope it helps.How to get your ex back?
A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!


There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.


Here is a great website on how to get your ex back. Check it out if you are interested:





http://www.exbackguides.com/
start talking to someone else.





make her wonder about who it is your talking to





start hanging out with other chicks.





she'll start to wonder what you're doing with them.





then,


she'll get so fed up,


she'll tell you she wants you back.
well if you want to get her back then play hard to get it works on me all t he time!!!!!!
your kinda coming off as a stalker....its creepy. lay low for awhile. I know that doesn't seem like its going to help but give her space dude....your crushing her air bubble.
dude just give her some space and maybe she will want you back and dont type like that its annoying as hell to read
Why would you want to get back at a ex? Grow up and move on to something better. That's the best getting back ever.

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How do I win my ex girlfriend back if we're best friends?

Hi, i'm almost 18 years old and the girl that i dated is 15 years old. Okay, we had a street law class together and we never really talked to each other. On the last day of school, however; i exchanged my phone number with her but she told me she had her phone taken away from her. Fortunately she contacted me with her ipod and we started talking. Then after 4 days of talking I asked her out and we started dating. During the course of the summer, we only hung out 5 times because she switched back and forth between her mom's house (Spokane) and her dad's house (Coeur D Alene). We also couldn't communicate very well because she had to initiate the conversation first because she was using her ipod and I couldn't text her unless she was contacting me. When we did see each other, we had a blast and it really looked like we were going to go very far! I absolutely love her family, they treat me very well. As summer drew further away, I made the decision to go to a different school than her. I did this, because I thought it was a better situation for me. She was upset with my decision and she was worried that we'd never see each other and that we wouldn't have a great relationship. I tried hard to make it work with her, but she didn't like the idea of dating guys outside of her school. The very next day she told me that I should go to that school and I respected her for that. Before school started again, we hung out one last time and we had a great time together, nothing went wrong. Once school started she wasn't communicating with me and I started to worry a little bit. Eventually, she contacted me on friday for a brief moment. The weekend passed and she didn't communicate with me once. That monday after the weekend she contacted me and we broke up. She stated that she thought of me as the ';big brother that she's never had'; and that she thought of me as family. I was afraid she was interested in another guy and she said not at all. I was completely shocked because we had a great relationship and I couldn't think of anything that would cause her to break up with me. As the days went on, I would bring up that I missed her and that I wanted us to get back together. Most of her responses were ';Idk, idk how i feel.'; We got into a couple minor fights but that's about it. After while, she told me she had a boyfriend and that hit me harder than the breakup itself. When it happened a second time, I lost hope and did something very stupid, I told her that I thought we shouldn't be friends anymore and we weren't for over 3 weeks. Just 3 days before, she stated that I was totally her best guy friend and I just felt horrible. My best friend deleted her number off my phone and I couldn't communicate with her unless she communicated with me. Luckily, 3 weeks later she contacted me and we became friends again. During this time, she's told me that we should go to the movies, go to a concert, and snowboarding together. We went to the concert and she acted like we were dating still. She'd lay her head on my shoulder and I'd put my arm around her. She sat on my lap and let me put my arms around her. Once the concert ended, I stopped her and kissed her on the lips. I could tell that this didn't bother her and she didn't seemed fazed by that. This morning I had hope that we might be back together, but when I asked her if we should give ourselves a second chance she said ';maybe idk.'; People, I love this girl more than anything in thee entire world and I need all the advice I could possibly ask for. I just want her back in my arms, I was so happy with her. It would also be a big help if somebody would guess why she broke up with me and what I can do to increase my chances. I don't want anybody else, I only want her. Please I need your help! :)How do I win my ex girlfriend back if we're best friends?
She is too young for you. She doesn't know what she wants, and it seems like you do. You can't make someone be your girlfriend if she doesn't want to be! Besides, you could get into deep trouble once you become 18. She will be under age and if you have sex with her (even with her consent) you could end up in jail and on probation for many years.





Give this girl time to grow up. If you still feel the same way about her when she is 18, pursue it then.How do I win my ex girlfriend back if we're best friends?
Dude, I feel your need to get her back. If I'm in your shoes I'd definitely do everything I could to win her heart. Heck, been there done that. Firstly, she's really young and you gotta give her some time to grow up. People's feelings changes and raging hormones will make you feel like she's the world and 10 years from now, maybe the thought and emotions will change.





But IF you really do love her, and you really want her back, then don't be desperate. Just be there for her and wait till she grows older. If you guys still want to get back together by then, then congratulations! If you're really desperate, find out how to totally make her fall in love with you. I hooked up with my friend who sells this guide on his website, you should check it out.

How can I get my Ex-Girlfriend back?

Okay I need as much advice and help as possible, hopefully decent advice and no slagging off. I was with my girl for 10 months and it was a bit of a rollarcoaster. In the first 5 weeks of our relationship she got drunk at her prom and kissed a few boys. I let her back in far too quickly as I really felt we had something special. Anyway I let her back in almsot straight away (which was probably a mistake) and she promised me it would never happen again and her friends made her drink way over her limits. Anyways she managed to stick to her promise and did nothing whatsoever to hurt me in the following 9 months. However during this time I began treating her badly and we began having lots of arguements, mostly over trust issues. Basically I banned her from partys and in return she banned me from clubbing (as I don't do partys there terrible). Anyway over time the relationship got amazing but on the other hand unhealthy. After 7 months we actually started to begin thinking about having a kid next year and marriage in 5 years. The unhealthy side of the relationship was because we were controlling eachothers social life. And we started seeing each other 24/7 and whenever we weren't together we would argue due to her paranoia with the amount of girls that would always chat me up etc etc. So anyway she began to hate the amount of girls adding me on msn and facebook and requested for each other to exchange passwords, so we did. A few days later I realised that virtually my entire girl contacts were erased, which I didn't have a problem with as most of them were random and she left my close friends on there. In return I thought hey lets make it even I will do the same with her boy contacts so it all span into a bit of an immature game really. However, last weekend she had a house party at her mams best friends house and I refused to let her go but she had to go. I told her after all the nights out with the boys you've banned me of your going to be selfish enough to go, basically I was stupid, I didn't take into account that her mam and her family would be attending therefore there would be no trouble. When her mam found out about this trust issue we had she went bannanas as we kept it all hidden away. The sunday after the party, her mam was questioning why she didn't participate much during te party, and she told her mam that she just wanted to be around me 24/7 (which was actually true). However when I took her home, shortly after her and her mam had a fight where her mother slapped her in the face and then she scrammed her mam back. After this she was grounded for a week, stripped off all contact for a week until her step dad came back from work to discuss the issue. No phone, no nothing. So we weren't used to this and started getitng rather sick. Anyway we thought **** this and agreed for one day of the week to see eachotehr behind closed doors up her school 9only for her sister to spot my car and go home and tell her mam). Anyway when she found out about me controlling her facebook and msn and partys she lost her head and cut me off completely. 2 days after this break up I've been suffering like hell, and I've been told by one of her friends that she has been the same and isn't attending school until after easter. I realised now that I should have just let the past be the past and not use it against her and treat her badly for what she did. I became a control freak and my paranoia was actually bigger than hers which she was unaware of. It seems as if we are over for good. However my mam seen them both in the town centre earlier today and her mam said for there to be any chance whatsoever of her changing her mind I would have to change the way I am completely and improve as I was controlling her duaghters life (she fails to realise that all her daughter wanted was to be with me 24/7) but at ages 18 and 17 maybe that's just unhealthy. Basically I just need some huge advice. I've written a letter to her which I am going to post into her works, letting her know how much pain im in and how sorry I am as we promise to be together forever. It's such a sad story and such a sour way to end a relationship of such brute strength. Her mam told my father that she had become my posession and that I would have to change my ways to have any chance of her changing her mind. She told my mother that after some time to think about things if I am man enough to go up to her mam's house and talk to her then I could. So next week I plan on doing this. Me and her parents have never been on the same wavelength but vice-versa my parents love her too bits and today when she seen my mother broke down in tears and hugged her for half hour infront of her mam. Well I had this ever-growing fear that she would listen to her mother and just move on but her best boy mate told me she loves me too much and now my mam has said she would be highly suprised if that was the case. And actually she was worried about me moving on also! I just need some advicHow can I get my Ex-Girlfriend back?
When you find urself,, u'll find your woman, real talk. you need to get over her quickly! (remember!) If u cant get over,, u will go underd to . i hate when people waisting their trying to get an ex back... u need to to get ur money right dude....damn...

Can i get my ex girlfriend back?

we been broke up for 3 months i broke up with her because she was to clingy. i was stupid but i want her back. she dated my friend for four days and they broke up two days ago. this is a letter i wrote her.





dear angel( a nickname i gave her)


hey how you been? we'll hopefully good.. but anways let me get to the point of why im writing you this letter. honestly i been thinking about you lately and its hard to get you off my


mind. i mean all the good times we had. from you being really shy, to us talking on the phone late at night, spending time at the movies, your house, at the park, or out shopping.


it really didnt matter what we did we always managed to have a good time together. the 9 months we were together were the best part of my life


and i dont care how long i pretended not to like you, but the truth is i never stopped thinking about you.


the reason i been ignoring you is beecause i know your family most likely doesnt like me and i understand.


i dont blame you if you dont even like me. but just know you will always have a special place in my heart no matter what.


i miss talking to you. hopefully we can be friends, but if not its ok. talk to you later hopefully.


p.s. keep this letter to yourself please. im 19 shes 18. i just turned 19Can i get my ex girlfriend back?
Go for it! Looks like she hasnt forgotten u either..Good Luck!

How to deal with an ex girlfriend that keeps trying to contact your boyfriend?

We have been together almost 2 years now and his ex girlfriend keeps trying to contact him. I am not sure if it's because she wants to know how their (now our dogs) are or if she is just trying to cause trouble. My boyfriend never responds back to her and when ever she tries to request him as a friend on social networks he rejects her, but it really bugs me. She just recently got engaged and that seems to be when the behavior got worse. Should I say something to her to see what it is she wants or just leave it alone?How to deal with an ex girlfriend that keeps trying to contact your boyfriend?
ignore it and move onHow to deal with an ex girlfriend that keeps trying to contact your boyfriend?
One way for him to get her to stop is for him to simply state that he does not want to hear from her again. He needs to put his foot down. He might not want to be confrontational or look cruel, but he has to be firm about this. It's up to him to tell her that what she's doing is unacceptable and if it continues after that, it's harassment. he can make a complaint to the social networking people to have her removed from their network if it continues. Even the police can get involved.


She's getting married to someone else, but she might be so insecure and unsure about the new relationship that she's trying to go back to something safe... your guy.
Leave it alone or else your involvement could open a whole new can of worms. Just let it be.

Is it ok to hug your ex girlfriend from behind?

we got together for a month she broke up with me cause i was too passive ( i was having trouble coping with a spell of depression) well weve been apart for 20 days now and i was wondering cause i still love her (i ended up falling in love with her but she didnt feel the same...) if since we hug normaly it would be ok if i hugged her from behind n stuff when she doesnt notice... i mean i rly rly wanna be with her and its been rly hard though weve gotten back to being close friends. i wanna hug her and stuff buh im not sure what i should and shouldnt do i mean to a point i dont care how akward it is to her cause its friggin akward for me since i love her and yeah... in what ways can i still act around her.. id also be nice if we could try to lean toward gettin back togetherIs it ok to hug your ex girlfriend from behind?
Your avatar suggests that you never had a girlfriend.

How can i get my ex-girlfriend back?

Hi, So we broke up about 3 months ago and completely stopped talking about a month ago. She has recently tried to talk to me a little bit. I would ignore her at first but about a week ago i responded but acted as if i was over her. I said something like ';just friends'; and she said ';so your over me?'; so i answered with ';isnt that what you wanted: and she said ';i guess.'; A few days went by and i thought i would have heard from her but didnt. She was leaving for Nicaragua with her church to build houses on Saturday so on friday afternoon i just IM'ed her to say have a good trip and we talked a little while then i said i had to go. Later that night she IM'ed me and we talked some more and i told her that we should talk when she gets back because i know things between us havent been exactly comfortable recently and she said ';yes, thats fine'; She has been gon for just about a week now and comes back on sunday night. I want nothing more then to get back together with this girl. We were together for a year and for the she has recently tried to talk to me numerous times in the last two weeks. I really miss her and love her and want to know if it sounds like were on the road to getting back together and what i can do to get her back in my arms. She was my first love and i really really really want her back. Anything Helps :) Thank youHow can i get my ex-girlfriend back?
Well, it seems she wants to get back with you too. But if you keep pushing her away like that, she's going to think you don't want anything to do with her anymore. But, that doesn't mean to rush anything. Just let things fall back to place. Be nice to her you know, text her once in awhile and ask her how she is doing. Call her up sometime and say you just wanted to talk. After a good friendship is established again, ask her to hang out. After you guys hang out see how it goes. If it's meant to be again it will all go well, if not then maybe it should just stay the way it is you know.


But I WISH YOU good luck:)How can i get my ex-girlfriend back?
seems to me she misses you to. When she gets back you should tell her how you feel or even tell her now and just hope for the best.
It looks like she wants you back too. GOOD LUCK!
you have to talk to her,

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Trying to get ex girlfriend back?

2 days ago I called my ex because she had called the night before. I didn't answer. So yesterday I called her and asked hey ';hey what's up? how come you called?'; and she was like ';just to talk..'; and than , like most ex's , asked her ';give it to me straight are you seeing someone else?'; Complete silence and than she just hung up. 2 minutes later she messaged me with ';Btw I'm not I'm just busy and I don't like u drilling me'; , she sent that message twice and than she said ';Oh so nor ur gonna ignore when I answer u'; and than the last message was ';Which I didn't have to answer';. I responded 2 hours later saying ';Thank you for answering and I didn't want you to feel like I was bothering you';. That was the last thing I said and no contact so far. What do you guys think? Don't say how she's playing games or such , just need to know how badly I messed up.


4 hours ago - 4 days left to answer.


P.S


I also wrote her an apology letter 4 days ago and sent it snail mail , called her on the same day she received it and was like ';the only reason i'm answering is because of your apology letter';.Trying to get ex girlfriend back?
Hey Don,


Getting back together with your ex girlfriend is not so easy.


Nevertheless if you decide you and her are meant to be together its achievable.


Here are some suggestions -- assuming, of course, that you want the girl back:





1. Don't get too jealous. Remember, jealousy is an emotion and typically refers to the negative thoughts and feelings of insecurity, concern, and anxiety over an anticipated loss of something that the person values, such as a relationship, companionship, or love.





2.Leave Her Alone. Give her some time to think about the relationship. If you had a wonderful relationship, she'll feel that she misses you and will try to get back to you.





3.Terminate all communication. This is tough and it will be killing you, but really it's killing her more. She's starting to understand how much she needs you and how much she misses you. Cutting off communication is the largest step.





4.Recover Emotionally. You don't have a chance of getting your ex back if you're not emotionally calm and in command. Women dislike needy, clingy, desperate men - so you need to pull your own life together before trying to draw her back into it. Merely be calm and collected about the whole circumstance, and make your life happier. Going for jogging or to the gym will make you feel better too.





5.Start talking to another. This helps for many reasons. This will probably be too much for your ex. She will find out that you're talking to this girl, and it will get her back to you. Use with carefulness as it may give the wrong signals, such as a sign that she should move on because you have a new girlfriend.





6.Act like nothing is wrong. She's not going to want you back if you're acting depressed. Make sure you're laughing a lot and pretending to have a good time. This is so hard because of the break up depression.





7.Look your best. Make sure your acne is gone, you get yourself shaped up, and looking excellent. She won't be able to resist.





8.Build up confidence.





9.If you want to get her back, then you need to be the Alpha male. Get back the confidence you had earlier when you just began dating her.





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All the best!Trying to get ex girlfriend back?
if your writing her apology letters and trying that hard to get in contact with her you can't be messing up that badly.. why did you break up in the first place? you sound nice, i hope she's not trying to screw you around.

How to win your ex back?

Reccently i broke up with my girlfriend, and right away my ';friend'; asked her out, i think it was because she was so sad she went out with him, but im not sure and i was just wondering if anyone has some tips to get her backHow to win your ex back?
Tell her you're sorry and you made a huge mistake, send her flowers, and reminisce about a great (maybe intimate) moment you two shared. Then she'll realize that she misses you and possibly get back with you.





It depends on why you guys broke up in the first place.How to win your ex back?
Based on what you wrote.. you didn't say you still like her or miss her. It seems like you want her back because there is competition and there is someone else in the picture now. If that's the reason, I'm not going to give you any tips!
First you need to get her attention. You can do this by changing your look (for the better), setting new goals for the future, or by building up your social status.





The key is to make her see what she is missing. since you broke up with her, you can assume that she didn't want it to end. But not you have to make up for your mistake. Get creative and show her how you really feel!
I know that this is a completely stupid thing to do but..... Tell her that you gave her an exotic form of herpes so that if she has sex with anyone else besides you. She-Will-DIE!.

Can i get my ex-girlfriend back?

Hi, So we broke up about 3 months ago and completely stopped talking about a month ago. She has recently tried to talk to me a little bit. I would ignore her at first but about a week ago i responded but acted as if i was over her. I said something like ';just friends'; and she said ';so your over me?'; so i answered with ';isnt that what you wanted: and she said ';i guess.'; A few days went by and i thought i would have heard from her but didnt. She was leaving for Nicaragua with her church to build houses on Saturday so on friday afternoon i just IM'ed her to say have a good trip and we talked a little while then i said i had to go. Later that night she IM'ed me and we talked some more and i told her that we should talk when she gets back because i know things between us havent been exactly comfortable recently and she said ';yes, thats fine'; She has been gon for just about a week now and comes back on sunday night. I want nothing more then to get back together with this girl. We were together for a year and for the she has recently tried to talk to me numerous times in the last two weeks. I really miss her and love her and want to know if it sounds like were on the road to getting back together and what i can do to get her back in my arms. She was my first love and i really really really want her back. Anything Helps :) Thank you





P.S- i spent a lot of time trying to get her back right after we broke up, so then i just kinda took it easy and stopped talking to her for a while and i guess she go the point. I went back to therapy for this girl and made some serious changes that i needed to make in order to make our relationship work. I just want the shot to show her how much i have improved. How do i get her to agree to giving me that one shot i need? I just dont want to act like im overdooing anything.Can i get my ex-girlfriend back?
hmm by what you said it seems like she has feelings for you too. you should try writing her letters or getting her something to show that you were thinking about her and just keep trying to talk to her ....good luckCan i get my ex-girlfriend back?
Not a chance.
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How can i get my ex girlfriend back?

My gf and I split up 5 months ago,the break up was hard on her, and we stayed close and acted like we were out the whole time, we did all the stuff u do when your dating. 2 weeks ago she asked if i still loved her and i said yes, it made me realise all the feelings i had so i asked her back out, she said no, she said she has had to much pain and doesnt wnat that again. She slept with someon else and said she realised she isnt as hung up on me as she thought, it was just a 1 night stand. I've turned into your cliche, not eating, sleeping, always thinking about it. We have done his before breaking up and den havin one nights stands with other people and i won her back, she says she doesn't love me like she did but she said that last time. I have had long chats with her and she said she doesn't want anybody and wants space and to enjoy life. i kept goin on and she said she wanted space and i gave her that, she wants to get back to bein close like we have for the past few months. I wrote her a letter and she said she is sorry about the way im feeling because she has felt liek that for 5 months, she said she spent all that time thinking about me, so i wish i said something sooner, i feel ive missed my chance. she also said that she feels its happened for a reason and it upsets her 2 but she cnt help it, she cares alot. She said she doesnt wnat any1 and she wants to be the good friends that we are. And the way i see my life is if im meant to ill get the feelings back but i really dnt want it at the mo! we always hang out and she calls me her best friend and i said about goin cinema and she said we will do stuff liek dat because i am really important to her. Im totally confused because we have split up a 3 times and gone back out and its been great, she has taken all splits quite hard in the past. Im confused because how can she fall out of love in 2 weeks? why is she wanting to keep me so close yet tellin me she desnt have those feelings for me but if there meant 2 den they'll come back? im not bothered about the other bloke because last time we split we both slept with other people and then went back out together. i dont no whether to throw in the towel, or to not have contact and see if she comes back or what? i really love her and i know shes loved me for 3 years, how can that be lost in 2 weeks? is she just wanting to have fun and keep me there? or is it definately all over?? i dont get the siuation at all!! any help??How can i get my ex girlfriend back?
Hey Shane.....You need to turn the tables around and you need to do it quick if you want your girl back.





Quit being her friend for the time being and telling her how much you love her etc. Right now you are being her emotional tampon. I don't mean to sound harsh but that is the reality of it.





I have seen this so many times where the guy gets so hung up on their girl that they change into a needy clingy guy.





What attracted her to you in the first place? Not being a sap but being cool and strong about who you are as a person. Women want a guy that's got it going on, like the guy you used to be when you first met.





The best advice about getting an ex-girlfriend back that I ever got came from Matt Huston. It was a real wake up call into the psycology of women. He knows what he is talking about and wrote a no punches held back blueprint about how to get an ex-girlfriend back.





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an ex girlfriend is an x for a reason ,just stay friends
My dad used to say it's the rocks in the brook that make the water sing. These things we hate in life, like losing someone and not being able to influence their decision, is really tough on us. You'll be going about your business and then -WAM- a memory from a smell or sound brings you right back and it hurts all over again.





The thing about it is that this pain is so necessary when you break up. It makes sure that the next time we are in a relationship, we don't jerk it up like we did the ones before. It reminds us how careful we need to step, understanding how it felt last time.





You cannot force this decision and you can't really influence it because of your past. All you can do is take the lesson from this and try to make it better last time.





Remember exes are exes for a reason.
May be your gf realized that you are both better to be friends relationship only and no more than that. Just take it easy and try to understand her feelings and when the time comes you will know that it is really for real either her or not.
well is sounds like she doesnt really know what she want just tell her to really think about what she wants in this relationship and give her space and when i space i mean dont see her you could text her but not to much its gonna be hard i know ive been through this to well kinda similar give it acouple of weeks maybe longer and if she really cares for you then she will come around. well good luck
Okay one, you sleep with other people? What up with that? You shouldnt be doing that if you love her. Two, Im goin thru the same thing as you. My ex bf and I have been off and on like that for the last 3 weeks. She wants to be friends bcuz she wants to feel like she still has some1. She still wants to be a part of your life. Shes not ready to just go out in the world and forget about you. (She did what I did, We feel the same) So, shes still torn between loving you and moving on from you. THATS why she chose being friends bcuz notice, being friends is right in the smack down center of loving and moving on. Make sense? Thats how she feels. She cares about you, no doubt, One part of her loves you, the other part of her wants to move on. Shes torn, so she wants to be friends. Okay three, if you love her, you should comfort her and be really nice to her bcuz if you do treat her nice nd sweet, it'll bring the ';love levels'; up more. You should also tell her how you feel. That always helps in relationships..I hope this helped! A lot of it is what Im going thru right now. Good luck :)

If your ex girlfriend calls you alot and you talk for hours and hours does it mean anything more then friends?

We talk alot on the phone with her calling me more now then she has since we were together. In fact, she hasn't called me this much since we were together and back at the time we talked the same as now, for hours upon hours at a time either during the daytime, evening or late nights. She has a good idea how how I feel however I am not sure what she really wants, however I have known her along time, almost 5 years now, and know that she would not just call out the blue for no reason because if she dosen't want to talk or something then there is no way she would call. For quite awhile now we are getting along so very well and I am certainly not complaining, just letting things flow and not bring up anything from when we were together. My guess is she is slowly trying to rekindle the relationship by being good friends first before anything else. I can say that when we were together before we really were not friends first, we just jumped into a relationshp right away so maybe she wants to do it the right way this time. What is everyone's opinions on this?If your ex girlfriend calls you alot and you talk for hours and hours does it mean anything more then friends?
i think you are right that she does want to get back together with you but maybe she wants to take it slowly this time. but the most important think is do you want to get back together if her, if yes, go for it and if no, tell her and explain it to her, it better for both of you.

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Confronting your boyfriends ex girlfriend...what to say?

Hey y'all. I don't want this to sound immature...but i'm having some problems with my boyfriends ex girlfriend coming into the relationship. She won't leave him alone! It has happened so many times already i've lost count, and I would like to say something to her about it. However, i'm not just sure on what i should say. How can i be nice but tell her to quit talking to him? she had so many opportunities to get him back and she decides to wait til he has a new girlfriend. You have to understand that for a relationship to work, you can't have the past still lingering. Any answers? Thanks, 10 pointsConfronting your boyfriends ex girlfriend...what to say?
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Okay, I don't think that she should stop talking to him, ya know? Cause you don't want to be one of those girlfriends who doesn't let any other girl get near her man. But I think you should get your boyfriend to say something to her. Or you can say something like ';Hey, I know you still like him. But...you had your chance. And I like him now, I'm sure he'll still want to be friends. And you can! But nothing more...cool?''


Something like that I guess...?


Does that help?

I want my ex-girlfriend back. I Love her & miss her alot. What should I do?

We dated a lil over a year. She broke up with me a month ago because she said she wanted sometime to herself. We seen each other 3 times since we broke up %26amp; had sex everytime we seen each other. She wanted to do it, she made the first move I didnt. I havent seen her in 2 weeks %26amp; we havent talked in a week. Ive told her how I felt several time. The last time we talked I told her that I couldnt talk to her anymore because it just makes it harder for me to get over you. I told her that I Would always be here for her %26amp; if she really needed me to call me. Well last night she called me like 15 times %26amp; sent me a message on myspace. I didnt answer, I havent called her back or replyed to the message. What should I do?? I really want her back.... This is the message she sent me...








I have so much to say and i dont know how to say it. I guess i'll start with the same old i miss you. And i do so bad. I feel like your just on a trip somewhere and im waitin on you to come back to me. I just cant take this anymore. Feelin like this. I think about you every second of everyday. Every littile thing reminds me of a time we had. I cant even look at the sky anymore. And i want to kill my self every day for the mistake i've made. And its all over my family rippin us apart.not because i didnt love you anymore. If i didnt love you i wouldnt bother you like this. It wasnt like this when me and trey broke up. I didnt really ever even think about him. Not like i do you. I just feel so empty and so lost. I miss the way you touched me and all the nights we shared. I just cant stop thinkin of you. God i want you. I really cant bare it any more. This sounds stupid because i broke up with you. I know. But im hurting so bad. I need you. Its just not that simple for me to go back to you. Please understand.














I want my ex-girlfriend back. I Love her %26amp; miss her alot. What should I do?
If i said don't take her back would you listen to me?I want my ex-girlfriend back. I Love her %26amp; miss her alot. What should I do?
TAKE HER BACK! TAKE HER BACK!
true love man, true love. go for it. i would this ranks as the best answer man you gotta tell her or your gonna feel like this forever, trust me.

How do you win your ex back?

Me %26amp; My boyfriend been going out for 7 years. WE broke up he was still dating me 2 and things were going ok I had a chance of getting him back but last week I did something so stupid I got into his email account sent this other he is dating a nasty email telling her to leave me alone. Now he is really mad at me said this girl will be his new girlfriend anyone think I have a chance of getting him back now when him and this girl break up? I am so heart broken. I cant move on. I love him with all my heart. I just didnt want him to be with this girl they are not right for each other. Please help me to figure things out. He still loves me and he said he still misses me and after 7 years do you really think it can be over? Do you think it could work out being friends for a while and showing my postive changes with the reasons we broke up?How do you win your ex back?
move on . if he realizes that he DOES WANT to bee with you while youre still in the mood to have him back thats your call. if he doesnt act before you'eve cooled on him he never will and you need to get on with your lifeHow do you win your ex back?
ok ok. I understand that you love him, but right now after all that...you and him both need some space..just a little bit of time away from him. He probably does love you, but you crowding him is giving him mixed feelings. Just stop talking to him, a few months later..call or email him and tell him that we would like to talk because you have had some time to think about things. At that point, you will have answer because right now, things are so messed up between you and him and he is so pissed, if you crowd him..it will make it worse.


Good Luck. And remember that everything happens for a good reason. If it doesnt work out, that means that is something better out there awaiting your arrival.
OK. Now, his trust in you has been broken. If he was already talking to this other girl then he would have been in two minds about you to begin with. There are no magic spells or potions to get him back but there is one thing you can do!


Make him fall in love with you all over again.


You'll need to take a good look inside you to understand what pushed him away to begin with.


Talk to friends and family and ask them to be honest in telling you about your bad points and where they think you went wrong.


During this time keep contact with him minimal. Your heart may be aching now but pushing him too far will never get him back.


When you do talk to him appear to be busy in your life without making him feel your over him.


Make jokes, smile, check your appearance and learn something. Read about something interesting and one day ask him: Do you know how rain is made?


When you talk to him treat him like a friend you've just met. Not someone you've known for seven years. Don't ask about his new girlfriend. Pretend she doesn't exist. As much as it hurts you, and it will, you must try and distance yourself from the situation and start working on yourself so that when he does open his eyes, he'll see you in a different light.


I wish you the best!

So how many people have gotten back with your ex?

I broke up with my girlfriend and told her that we were moving too fast and that we needed to slow down. She is still a little younger than me so I told her to go and date other people. Also, we aren't sour at each other. We both had a connection, but there were some trust issues. I said in about a year we might could get back together if we were both single because I wanted to build our communication skills a little more before the opportunity of getting together again! Knowing both our reputations, that is highly likely that we both will be single! Hearing this, do you think that we will get together in about a year? I really want to but don't think that she will have the interest then because I think patience is key in anything worthwhile but then again who knows, right? What do you people think?So how many people have gotten back with your ex?
Most people get back with their exes because it's something that is comfortable and familiar. The unknown is always scary. You had the heart to ask her to date other people... I hope you can grow a bigger heart to accept that she may just do that and fall in love with someone else.





The thing with getting back together with someone from the past is that you will still have to deal with the problems that were there (especially if they weren't resolved). So if you had problems with trust then, think about a year gone by having dated other people. Where's the trust now? And you want to build your communication skills with each other.. while.. not being with each other? How does that work? Let me know, because I certainly would like to know that trick!





I will agree with you and say patience is the key to most things worthwhile, but if it were so, then maybe you both should have been patient with your relationship in the beginning and let the wrinkled parts of it get ironed out.. slowly but always surely! So, wait a year or waste a year.. However you want to look at it. Best of wishes. I hope you both fall into place!So how many people have gotten back with your ex?
well who know how things will turn out. i have definately gotten back with my ex before even after he tore my heart apart b/c i really love(d) him.
i think that anything is possible....since she is younger than you she may realize she still likes you in about a year...but you cant base things on your reps...like i said anything can happen, you never know...just let things happen dont pursue it..if it happens it happens
I think communication is a plus and I guess time will tell.
Okay my thought on this is that people change. If both of you liked each other so much that you were even going to consider getting back with each other in a year or so than yea it's a possibility that it could happen. But like I said people change and so do their personality's. I have been with many of my ex's many times and I realized that they are just better of as friends for me. But things my be different for you.


Good luck and I hope this helps you out a little.


Abby
Not me, and I assure you it will NEVER happen.





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Never,,,, My ex was bugging me the other week, trying to get me to go to dinner,,, All he did is give me the creeps,,,,


Never, Never, Never,,
I think that if you think that this is the right person for you then why wait for a year before you let her know how you feel about her. You should not let love slip though your fingers if you can prevent it. You are taking a chance if you are going to wait a year before what will you do if in a year she is happy in another relationship and you have decided that this is the person that you need to be with and she is now unavailable. Will you try and tell her you feel then?

Wanting / Getting Ex back even though he has a girlfriend!!!!???

What do guys think about their exes wanting to get back together even though you might be in a relationship now?





My scenario: I am female. Ex and I were together for a year and a half. Broke up a few months ago...he couldn't handle me cheating on him in the beg. of our relation. and I couldn't handle his ';ladies'; man personality (to sum it up short). He kept contemplating getting back with me and then decided to leave all the drama alone (without even working on it) and now he's in a relat. with a girl he apparently really likes.





How would you feel if your ex kept trying to get back with you or dropping hints about the 'two' of you. How would you break the situation down in your head...he still tells me that he loves me, etc.





Is there anyway an Ex could get you ';back'; even if you might be with someone?Wanting / Getting Ex back even though he has a girlfriend!!!!???
Wow... sounds like your situation is similar to mine. A week after I met my current guy, I slept with someone else, and he was devistated by it. Then about 3 months after we continued things, he slept with someone in my house, out of spite. He saw how bad it hurt me, he said he didn't realize how much I cared, and felt really bad after the fact, so we have continued to date. Now we are officially boyfriend/girlfriend, and working on things, although sometimes our past actions come up and it gets difficult with him sometimes. I don't know of any certain way to get him back. If he's happy in his new relationship, leave him alone. No sense in being a homewrecker. Put yourself in her shoes, your the new girl, and his ex was trying to get him back. You would feel hurt, and probably think the ex was psycho! Good luck! Hope all works out for you.Wanting / Getting Ex back even though he has a girlfriend!!!!???
No is the simple answer, and I will try to expalin why. You wil both always have those little nagging doubts in the back of your heads ready to be dished out when the first little arguement happens. especially if you are both in a relationship why do you need to do this?
You are really confusing. Your question states that you want him back, but then your details say that he wants you back cuz he loves you.. Which one is it??? If you cheated on him in the beginning, then you are pretty much a whore. If I was your boyfriend, well that would never happen b/c girls don't cheat on me... at least not the kind I date.
i wouldn't really know how to answer this because i am going throught the same thing but we did stuff an he cheated on his gf wit me an he is sayin he wants me an misses wat we had an yeah its way confusing but i guess the guy realizes wat he cannot have so that is maybe y he is doing this to you.
Ever seen a penny on the ground and you pick it up, and it's on heads, for good luck or tails, u don't pick it up. Well, put it this way, you're not a penny, and you're worth more then a flip of the coin, heads ,or tails. If he's with someone and is trying to get you back while still with her. Check out this scenario, do you want to co-sign lies to you and to her, and be a coin, fipped on heads or tails from one day to the nxt. Tell him, to keep picking up coins and hoping for luck, in the mean time, tell him, you're Gem, and u shine, you don't need to be worn and used, you want to be cherished!





Girlfriend, keep it moving!
He's probably wishing you would take a hint and move on with your life. It not very attractive for a girl to keep chasing a guy. Especially chasing a guy with a girlfriend. It makes you look cheap.
You cheated on him, now you need to leave him be and let him have a girl who respects him and cares for him. He chose her; not you. Deal with it.





I would never go back to an ex who cheated on me, whether I was with someone new or not.
Leave him alone.He sounds like a jerk anyway.
leave the drama for yo mama...





move on already~





he's your EX....he's with someone new....leave him alone
letting ur ex act this way makes u no better than him. dump him leave him. if he really wants u hell leave his current girl.
You are a cheater, what was there to work on? Leave the guy alone and let him be happy, you didn't really care for him anyway or you wouldn't have cheated! You just want what you can't have so you can get him from her, and then you still won't want him!!! Evil Witch!
My ex tried that last summer. I had briekn it off with her %26amp; she kept calling, emailing %26amp; coming over to my place. I was in a new relationship %26amp; it all seemed psychotic on her part. The sad part is almost a year later she is still emailing me.





In short it is just a nuisance... Be strong %26amp; move on...
Sounds like you guys were made for either other. You are both cheaters and liars, so you deserve one another.
leave him alone
Okay back up!


You cheated on him. He shouldn't wan you back! No offence. Now he is trying to cheat on his gf with you? Are you crazy? Don't let it happen. You are better then all of this. Stuff like this makes me sad. If he wants you back he should break up with his girl. You should never of cheated on him. And you seem jealous about him being a 'ladies' man. It seems you both are jealous enough of each other that you will break up then try to hurt others and get back together when he replaced you with a rebound and it has only been a couple of months. There is no way you can make that sound good at all. I'm sorry but you both seem confused. If you love him and he loves you just stop hurting others and tell each other the truth. WITHOUT CHEATING ON THE ONES YOU CLAIM TO ';LOVE';.


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If he's dropping hints and whathaveyou, he's probably suggesting the two of you just hook up rather than a relationship. He's not worth your time. Guys who just want a bit on the side or are willing to talk while still involved don't respect you.
Let it go,if he has another girl then why even bother?I mean the guy likes someone else and you still have the nerve to want this guy back?I think it is a no brainer that you let this vato go......

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Is it possible to get back together with an ex-girlfriend?

I'm 19 I broke up with my girlfriend of a year in late july. We both did alot of things to hurt each other during this break up. But we never stopped loving each other. She asked for me back the whole time. We decided to hang out one night and after that night I realised how much in love I still was with her. I didnt talk to her for about a week or two after that night so I could end things with the other girls I was seeing so that I could concentrate on her only. She was also starting to see some guy. We started hangin out things were great for about a week until her friends got involved in the situation and pushed her towards the other guy so from there I pretty much lost her but she kept in contact that she still loved me and that she just cant be with me right now. She is now dating this other guy but she is still in love with me? If anyone has any experience with getting back with an ex id really appreciate it !! Share your experience Id love your advice, wich steps I should takeIs it possible to get back together with an ex-girlfriend?
i am 19 as well, turning 20 very soon. i think our relationships are different in the simple fact that SHE broke up with ME, but still similar.





firstly, the friends do NOT have nearly as much power as you would believe, unless she is rediculously insecure. but if she were rediculously insecure, she would have taken you back the moment you started showing interest again.





its been a long time since july, and a year isnt THAT long of a relationship. its easily possible that she has goten over you by now, which would make it a real shame that it took you so long to want her back. but, especialy if this is the first guy she has dated since you broke up, its OK. your 19, and i presume she is roughly the same age, and a year is still enough time to develop a bond which cant be forgoten. she will be comparing every guy she dates even encounters, in the back of her mind, to you, even if its subconsiously.





ask yourself ';how could any other guy honestly measure up to you?';


let her date other guys. you should only talk to her seldomly, and only if she calls, and when she does, dont even mention other guys, simply have a conversation. if she can have fun talking or hanging out with you for a short time, she will want you around a little more.





its not really about ';what to do to get her back'; its more like, ';what you need to NOT do to ruin your chances that it will happen by itself';





its a little tricky, based on your story she hasnt permanantly labled you as a ';good friend';, but dont let that happen. dont let her confide in you when shes feeling down, dont be an ***, but skillfully avoid the situation.





the hurtful things when you split up might warrant an appology, but dont bring up any relationship issues, its in the past, let it go. dont try to justify behavior, assign blame, none of it.





back to the dating thing. think of it this way. you said you ended things with other girls you were seeing, so you were back in the dating pool, and it helped you to realize the girl you truly wanted. shes just starting to get back in the dating pool, and you need to just let the exact same thing happen to her. let her realize that she wants you back. women are not logical creatures, you cant convince them to do anything, it has to be their idea.





like i said, its all about ';not doing the wrong stuff'; rather than ';doing all the right stuff';

How to get my ex girlfriend back?

ok so we ended pretty badly, and we didnt talk for almost 2 years up intill yesterday when I logged onto aim and we for the first time had a real convo without a fight. she immed me first. as we talked for almost two hours she asked for me to add her on myspace and told me to txt her and all that stuff. After talking to her some old feelings for her started to comeback. I like her and I realized why i liked her to begin with. she goes to UC Irvine and im in Concord CA about 5 hrs difference. but I want her back but I dont want to seem desperate and be all gun ho about it after just one talk. I havent txted her either waiting for her to txt me 1st then I will. Your thoughts?How to get my ex girlfriend back?
if you know that you have feelings for this women...then you know wat to do...how about you guys just start of talking for awhile and see how your feelings go from there...when you know that you love her you know it...and if you think you guys can work this out then its possible...i hope things work out for the both of you...and just remember to start things off slow and see how it works out for the both of you...GOOD LUCK!How to get my ex girlfriend back?
dude...it seems u really like this girl so..write her a short poem and have it mailed to her..the link is on the bottom! it will show that you care about her!





Send her some flowers maybe to her place


some how find out her address and surprise her with some flowers and a note saying if she would like to go out for dinner...while u wait in the car! have her text u the answer but dont let her know ur there!





those are just a couple of things...hope it works man...
dont do it.
eep. Right now just get in contact with her %26amp; keep in casual contact w/ her - don't rush into 'we should get back together!' all of a sudden. Give it time. long distance is hard, so you have to know you really want it before you get into it. Plus, are you going to be moving closer together any time soon? If not, I might say think twice about it. the only good thing about a long-distance relationship is knowing you'll eventually be together.

How can I do to win back my ex girlfriend?

We broke up a month ago and since then we never had contact because I wanted to get over her, but two days ago she sent me a please call me back message, I called her yesterday, we talked and she mentioned that she missed me but she doesn't wanna get back with me at the moment, she says she wants us to be just friends and she wants to focus on her studies. I can't help but feel that she is testing me, I think she wants me to fight for her. What do you guys think?, your input will be very helpfull.How can I do to win back my ex girlfriend?
Stop being a wimp! Find another woman and forget the past and her with it. 90% of the time she cannot be 'won' back since attraction is NOT a choice. However, if you totally get your act together and never contact her etc. and only pay attention to other women, she might some day show interest in you again. This time don't blow it. Be cool, laid back, play hard to get, tease and flirt and treat her like your bratty kid sister and probably if you've got your act together you'll see she isn't such hot shuck after all. Good luck.How can I do to win back my ex girlfriend?
I think she still loves you but want just to be friends and focus on her studies at the moment, my opinion.. give it a break stay friends if you can but do see other people.
MAnnnnnnnn, trust in the King, you do NOT want to go back!! Now watch in about 3 months 1 week and 4 days, you are going to meet a real nice young lady, that makes you forget your ex girlfriend's name!!!!!!
every 1 wants wat they cant have... show her she cant have u and she will want u.
Don't ask us guys for advice. We're idiots when it comes to relationships. I could give you some suggestions, but my best advice would be to do the exact opposite of whatever I tell you, because I would be wrong.
than u just became a good friend than slowly c became Ur g friend
The thing is... it's hard to ask anybody about this question if they don't know your gf firsthand. I mean anybody could say anything based on THEIR OWN experiences, or experiences that they've seen. It all comes down to what kind of a person she is, though. I mean if she's very studious and feels as though your relationship has been jeopardizing her studies, then yes... she means it, and she needs some space. But some people use the school excuse for other things... they're not ready for relationships, they want time to meet other people. Nobody can really tell you, unless they know what kind of a person she is.
nah, she already found someone else with a cool car.
if you really want her back you have to fight. But i believe that it's the normal phase that everybody passes when we broke up. So just wait and see what you want to do.
nooo she is not testing u buddy . acctually i think she still loves u but may be her consequences are stopping her to do so the burden of studies is strucking her back well bee simple friends i am shure she will one day under stands u and ur fellings. ok
That would depend on why you broke up in the first place. Perhaps she needed some space, or perhaps the guy she wanted to replace you with rejected her. I would guess that she broke it off based on the wording of the question. If you are serious about starting it up again, you need to understand what caused the break-up before. Otherwise, you will end up in the same situation that led to the problems before.
she is playing with you stay still and when the moment comes you will know when to try to get back with her. hold back a little bet
just show her how true you are ... i am sure she will be back.. always do good to her..

How to get your ex back?

my girlfriend was on her period this week, and she has been upset and one day at school this week she accused me of cheating on her because i liked this girl that doesnt live here but nothin happend with that girl! and i said nothin happend baby. and she said im not your baby and she broke up with me. she has told me she wants to stay friends but that she doesnt think we should date and she said we have tried several times before and we never work out, and she said she doesnt want to be with me again. im still in love with her. is their anyway to rekindle this love back together or am i doomed and their is no hope?How to get your ex back?
Dude...this doesn't sound good...It's one thing if she is on her period and gets a little cranky or moody...Going psycho on you, accusing you of cheating and breaking it off with you however is pretty severe and probably unrelated to that time of the month! It's likely she was mad at you for other things (many women keep a list of things that have made them mad that we did) before this. Maybe she is using the cheating excuse just to break it off with you.





Either way, I would give her a few days to cool off before you talk to her again. It's possible she may change her mind. If you really do love her (which it sounds like you do) she probably knows this and will realize it. Unfortunately predicting what a woman will do is very hard, even if you have been together a long time! If she's done this kind of thing before she might very well get back together with you.





If you have noticed her being distant lately or if you two fight a lot then sorry to say...it might be over. It sucks that she accused you of cheating but you must ask yourself: Did you give her any reason to think this? And if not, do you really want to be with someone jealous? I would suggest to give her some time then try to talk to her. If she won't listen then you did your best and that's all you can do! Whatever happens, best of luck!How to get your ex back?
lol well first off, i think it was really cold that you blamed her being on her period as part of the reason why she broke up with you, but i understand you males can be like that when it comes to a female having her period. you tend to want to blame everything a woman does that might be crazy or out of the norm on her period, if she happens to be on her period. :P





you need to LISTEN to her. i dont think you do. she specifically told you she JUST WANTS TO BE A FRIEND now so accept that. it doesn't matter that your still in love with her. where relationships go love is a TWO-WAY, not one-way, thing. you cant make someone be in love with you and why would you even want to still be with someone who doesn't want you anymore anyway. get some dignity and leave her be. go find another girl who will appreciate you and grow to love you and just stay friends with the ex. she said NO, so respect her wishes.
well 1st if she hasnt goten a new bf she probly still likes u %26amp; mite just b testing u, try calling her with no intentions on getting back 2gether just talk bout random things but be flirty(; try to do this at least once a day for bout a week then dont call her for 7 days shel probly get bored and lonely not talking to u she might even call u! but ignore her for at least a week thats what my ex did %26amp; it worked lol
Give her time well at least untill she is off her period. She will want you back.
She's over you, move on. Liking another girl is like cheating, it doesn't matter if she's far away. You were giving another girl attention that you should have given your girlfriend. If you can't see how wrong that is, then you don't deserve her back anyway.





You've jerked her around one too many times and she's over it. She's not going to take you back. Have enough self respect not to go after her like a pathetic dog.
my baby daddy just broke up with me weve had lotta problems too. honestly i cant bring myself to this truth; it wont work out- n same to u prolly





theres no point in beating a dead horse
Write her a note saying how you can't stand being away from her and that you messed up ((girls like to be right LoL)) Make sure you say I love You in the note. And Give her some flowers to show how much you care.


If my ex did this for me, I would take him back in a heart beat
be friends with her still and always be there for her. Kinda still act like she's your gf without calling her your gf. then eventually she may see that she wants to get back together.
i think prove to her nothing happened if she still doesnt understand tell her how u feel then ask her if she will go back out will you. Promise nothing will happen. Or just give up because there may not be a chance.

Does my ex girlfriend still have feelings for me? DETAILS added! EASY question! Get your hot points for ease.?

I'm confused about my ex girlfriend?


She called me late on friday , talked about her boyfriend and than said ';hey you wanna grab some coffee?'; we didnt. The next day she came by my house to drop my stuff off, and we ended up talking outside my house for awhile and eventually we went out and went to the mall and a bookstore. We laughed alot with each other , though she did put down a girlfriend . (Who I told her was an ex now ..) . She say things like ';Is she as fun as me?'; or ';your girlfriend , is she chunky? '; and how she went to her facebook and checked her out. She told her mom we were hanging out. Her new boyfriend apparently doesn't goto college, and lives far out and has anger problems. She obviously doesn't stop her from dating him though. But she did put down my ex quite a bit. We hung out for about 2 hours , laughing and chatting. She said I look sad , I said I wasn't. I'm confused , is she liking me more than a friend? Is she slowly trying to get back with me? When she was leaving me off btw , she was like ';do you love her?'; and i said ';if you call me later tonight , I'll tell you right now'; , and she said ';ok deal!'; and i said ';if i got to know her , its possible, but right now no. do you want me to fall in love?'; and she said ';naahh';





We dated for 3 years , broke about 3 months ago. We didn't have sex immediately , we were friends first , than it gradually turned into a romance (before the breakup)


We broke up because she was having trust issues with me, and I was moody. Now I'm not moody anymore , and I'm direct and honest.Does my ex girlfriend still have feelings for me? DETAILS added! EASY question! Get your hot points for ease.?
.Looks as though she's trying to get closer to you again.So why not ask her if she wants to grab a cup of coffee.

URGENT! Please help. How do I get my ex girlfriend back?!?

My girlfriend and I of a year broke up about a week ago. We had a bad month, argued about stupid little things, and it ended up affecting us. When we broke up we both agreed that we were still in love, that we were the love of each others lives, and we'd still be there for each other. My girlfriend was the one to actually suggest the break up, citing that she needed space and time to stand on her own two feet. But since the break up, she's called and texted everyday. Right after the break up it was to tell me she missed me/thinking of me/loved me/was doing this for us. We got into some fights last week because she was upset that I wanted her to take the time she needed, our friends were being really negative about each other, etc. She told me Wednesday that she was glad she walked away and that she never wanted to see me again based on these little fights. But yesterday, she was calling apologizing, telling me she was broken and didn't know what to do. I love this girl more than life, and I have some people telling me to give her space and just back off, and others telling me to tell her how I really feel and see how she reacts. I wrote her a letter and I wanted to see what someone thought of it, this is what I want to say to her:


So I feel kind of silly doing this, mostly because I feel like every minute since you broke up with me, I feel as if I鈥檝e spent it telling you how much I love you. You think I would take the hint, let go, and move on, but I can鈥檛. You鈥檙e the love of my life. My everything. You鈥檙e the first person I think about when I wake up and the last person I think about before I go to sleep. I was made to be with you. We went through a bad month. A really bad month and we both hurt each other and hurt ourselves. I know things are hard, they seem practically impossible. I know that you鈥檙e broken because I鈥檓 broken, too. You鈥檝e been attacked and pushed away, and I honestly know how you feel, because I have, too. Maybe you did mean the things you said the other day, that you were glad you walked away and that you never wanted to see me again, and if you did, I will walk away and disappear for good. But if you didn鈥檛, if there鈥檚 the slightest chance in the world that you also meant and still feel that I鈥檓 the love of your life, that you are in love with me, I鈥檓 telling you that I feel the same. That I will not walk away or leave you. I鈥檒l fight with everything I have for you and us to get us back to the same place we were when we could fall asleep knowing there鈥檚 nothing more we need than each other. I promise and I swear I will do whatever it takes. You see, you鈥檙e a better person than I am. And it made me a better person to be around you. I don鈥檛 know, maybe we were just a dream. Maybe I went to bed and imagined us the way we both know we could be. But I swear, nothing has ever felt more real. And if we both just quit now, it鈥檒l disappear forever. I know we could both go on with our lives and be fine, but I know what we could be like together, and I choose us.


Should I say that, or just walk away and leave her alone??URGENT! Please help. How do I get my ex girlfriend back?!?
Just write her an apology as long as this question. No prob. Throw a rose in with it too. Good to go.URGENT! Please help. How do I get my ex girlfriend back?!?
Tell her about your closing thoughts in this question.
tell her u want to get back with her and please look at my questoin.
I think you should give it to her. If she doesn't accept your offer, then it was sort of like a closure. You try, you know? And if she is really wanting this to be the end of your relationship, you just have to grin and bear it. Walk away. Hurt in the privacy of your own home. Mope, you deserve to. But don't let her see it. I wrote a poem, actually about this. When I had my heart broken. It's on myspace, and I'm on my school computer, so I can't go copy and paste it. :(





As a woman, young girl, chick, whatever you want to call me,


I know there is nothing more painful than seeing a guy we care about hurt, and in pain. It makes us feel guilty, so therefore she'd probably get back together with you out of guilt, but is that really worth it? Would you rather her be with you because she wants to, or because she feels like she HAS to.





I'm not saying she is like most women, but there is that possibility it might happen. So my advice to you, is give it to her.


Let her read it. Let her know how much you care about her, and if she still walks away after that, her loss. Her stupidity.


Good luck!


You should e-mail me and tell me the outcome when it happens. :)
Wow! You're letter sounds like something out of a movie. I would send it - as long as you prepare your heart to hear something it doesn't want to. It's beautiful. It may not win her heart but at least you'll know once and for all where you stand and whether or not you need to move on. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
The letter is really good and sweet. Both people were right the ones that told you to give her space and the ones telling you to get back with her. She is confused about what she wants, but she knows she loves you. The space will help her figure out what she lost was someone great. But you don't want to give her too much space because you don't want to lose her. She doesn't hate you, and she doesn't want you out of her life, shes only saying that cause she is hurting. Give her the letter, romantic dinner and and tell her how you really feel. Only a matter of time and you will be with her again, cause what i read yall are both in deep love with each other, people just need their time apart sometimes.
This is heavy stuff and it's good to see that you're not afraid of your emotions. You need to step back a little, take a breather, and allow yourself a little time really think this through. Confusion doesn't reverse itself with a love letter. Time will tell if you two are meant to be together. Counseling is a good option, if there are real feelings on both sides it's a good way to see what you're doing wrong or right and the same for her. Do you think maybe she's a little afraid or is pushing back because it's too serious for her? You need to be selfish, take time for you to make sure this is the REAL deal.
Hmmm, maybe you should be writing my love letter for me, I think that's pretty damn good. Only you can say if you should send it though; Is she the kind of girl that will respond to that? Some will think it's the greatest gesture in the world, and others will just say ';oh please';, and see it as desperate. Nobody on here knows her though, obviously.





If you do decide to send it, then afterwards play it cool. It will be hard, but dont go pestering her, or you will look desperate. Wait for her to come to you. Hope that helps dude.
Getting your ex back can be very difficult, considering we often act on pure emotions than on rational thinking. Your letter seems to fit this description, as often when we try too hard and smother the other person we often end up pushing them away.





My best friend recently went through a breakup and found a website that she claims was the sole reason she was able to get back with her ex.





I was a bit skeptical at first, but it was pretty remarkable witnessing how she was able to get her ex back after she followed the advice from the website. The tactics are a bit unconventional, but they absolutely work - my friend is proof.





Here is the website if you are interested - hope it can do for you what it did for my friend:





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you both really need to decide what you want. If you want to try again, take it slow. If she wants to end it, be strong and accept it, and move on and don't let her contact you.





contact with ex's is hard and prolongs the pain from healing and moving on.

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Okay guys, how many of you would take back their ex girlfriend back if she says that she still love you?

but before you answer, she cheated on you with your friend and got pregnant. the day she found out that she was pregnant, she slept with you for the first time and a 2 weeks later says shes pregnant for you. but, later come to find out that she cheated on you, and found out that the baby wasnt yours. years later, she contact you and says she still love and want to get back with you. how many of you would say yes and accept?Okay guys, how many of you would take back their ex girlfriend back if she says that she still love you?
no thanks shes an ex for a reasonOkay guys, how many of you would take back their ex girlfriend back if she says that she still love you?
i dont think i would say yes right on the spot. I think i would date for awhile and see how hat goes and decide if im willing to get back together later....afteer all she probably feels terrible, why make her feel worse...at least give her a second chance
No way Well look at it like this your best friend sleeping with your gf nope then she tells you shes pregnant wow she needs to get her life straight.
I would if he was hott





if this story was a boy not a girl





i am 100% Str8
It's like this sweetie, screw me screw you :)
um drama much?


no way jose.

How Can i Get An Ex Girlfriend Back?

Well Its Simple But Complicated At The Same Time I Used To Love Her To Pieces She Was Sort Of My First Girlfriend But During One Point Or another during The Past year I Just Felt Like I didn't Loved Her No More It Was Just a Weird Feeling Cause She Was Still Really In loved With Me So I Had To break Up With Her Cause It Cant be Nothing Serious Without Love From both Sides Of The Relationship Or Would You Be With Someone You Dont Love no More?





So Time Passed And I'm Just Falling For Her Again But The Way We Broke up Wasn't The Most Sweet And Careful To Say It That Way... So During a Time She Almost Hated Me And After So Anyways now We Are Just Like Neutral Sometimes and Text her And Say Hi And Everything But Now She has a Boyfriend But I Dont Know How He Looks Like Or Anything...





So My doubts Are:





Is It Anyways to Become Friends Again In a Slow Calmed Way (discretely)?





And If There Is I Dunno How?





i Would Really Like a Professional Or good Answer, if Your Going To Say Something silly Or Dumb Please Dont say Anything At All, And If you Were a Girl i Would Really Appreciate Your Point Of View bout The Facts Like Is It There a Chance To Get Her Back?





Thanks And Sorry For Taking So Long In Explaining Everything :)How Can i Get An Ex Girlfriend Back?
i'M sORRY, bUT i fIND aLL tHAT cAPILALIZATION tOO dISTRACTING fOR pROPER rEADING. i tHINK yOU sHOULD kNOW tHAT.How Can i Get An Ex Girlfriend Back?
I do understand your change of heart, we are all human. However, you should probably let her go and be happy. If you try to get back with her it will probably only upset and confuse her. Why would you want to do that to her? For selfish needs? Not to be rude but she'll more than likely not take you back because A: The guy shes with probably is less likely to do to her what you did, and break her heart. and B: With you she'll have to take a chance of getting dumped and rejected again. If I were her, I wouldn't set myself up for another rejection from you.





Sorry, just my opinion. Hope it helps! :)
did she dump you? id leave it be then. did you dump her? then you already know why she ';hated'; you, girls sometimes still care for an ex after a breakup but try and block them out of their mind vecause it hurts and that is one of the hardest things for a girl to do so why play with her mind again? it seems like you may just want her back now because shes happy and in a relationship. you dont really sound committed to a plan of getting her back either. why would you be thinking of you two could possibly break up..why even think that far if you really wanted her back thats all that matters. if you try you got to do it slow. anything can happen keep an open mind. wish her happiness from the start if she does have a boyfriend but just be her friend right now. she will have no interest and will not come running to you the moment you contact her just because you flirt with her or say how good she looks or anything like that you have to approach it like you care about her. women arent stupid. some are but alot arent. if you two end up getting closer and it works out it does.

How to win your ex back after 7 months of silence?

Me and my ex have been broken up for 7 months, and i see him eveyrday at school and still miss him so much. we broke up beacuse i was kind of bossy and we got annoyed with eachother, for example he told me he wanted to join a baseball team and i said ';thats stupid';..i didnt support him enough,something we coulda worked out. we dated for a year and some..and we talk a little bit but he has a girlfriend but i know from a reliable source that they wont be going out in 2 months bc my ex is moving to the next town and shes gonna get back with her ex soon. i would do anything, honestly anything, to go back out with him, but i have a bf now hes really great but i still always think about my ex and am gonna break up with my current boyfriend once i figure out what to do. i need to know a good way to apologize and assure him that i will be better in the relationship. a romantic way. guys prefferablly tell me what you think.How to win your ex back after 7 months of silence?
i know that this is not what you want to hear but i think that the best thing for you to do is for you to move on. i def. think that this would be for the best, because if things didn't work the first time there is that much more difficult for things to work out the second time. both of you will be riding on past memories and will also remember things that both of you did that made you mad from the past relationship. now if you want to ignore this advice here is what you did to do:





start off by talking to him, you want to establish communication between you two so that you can talk about more then just shallow things and get to know one another again.


if you talk and all things are good then start to hang out, handle it like a new relationship. of course the entire time you want to reasure him that you are no the same way this time around and that you have learned your lesson. show him that you will be better, don't tell him.How to win your ex back after 7 months of silence?
Usually the best advice comes from a relationship consultant, but here's a book that will teach you all the information you need on how to get your ex back, they have a money back guarantee, so if it doesn't work within 60days, you can get your money back.





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Good luck!
The only thing that'll even open the door is honesty. Tell him honestly and sincerely how sorry you are and that you want to give it another shot. Be prepared for him to say no because he may have moved on already beyond holding on to your common past. If you feel strongly enough about him, just let him know with no horse--it how you really feel. If it doesn't work, then at least you'll know you made the effort and afterwards, you might want to think a little about relationships and how you go into it for what you can give to the other person, and not for what you can get out of them and learn to be more felxible and accepting of people for who they are. That includes being supportive of them if they want to gop out for a baseball team. Compassion. before you treat someone any way, ask yourself how you would feel being treated that way, and then decide if that's how you want to go. If you go into a relationship for any other reason than you love the other person and accept them for who they are, you're in it for the wrong reasons. The fact that you still think of him even though you both have other people is your conscience telling you you f-----d up. Learn from your mistakes and don't repeat them.