we got together for a month she broke up with me cause i was too passive ( i was having trouble coping with a spell of depression) well weve been apart for 20 days now and i was wondering cause i still love her (i ended up falling in love with her but she didnt feel the same...) if since we hug normaly it would be ok if i hugged her from behind n stuff when she doesnt notice... i mean i rly rly wanna be with her and its been rly hard though weve gotten back to being close friends. i wanna hug her and stuff buh im not sure what i should and shouldnt do i mean to a point i dont care how akward it is to her cause its friggin akward for me since i love her and yeah... in what ways can i still act around her.. id also be nice if we could try to lean toward gettin back togetherIs it ok to hug your ex girlfriend from behind?
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Friday, August 20, 2010
How can i get my ex-girlfriend back?
Hi, So we broke up about 3 months ago and completely stopped talking about a month ago. She has recently tried to talk to me a little bit. I would ignore her at first but about a week ago i responded but acted as if i was over her. I said something like ';just friends'; and she said ';so your over me?'; so i answered with ';isnt that what you wanted: and she said ';i guess.'; A few days went by and i thought i would have heard from her but didnt. She was leaving for Nicaragua with her church to build houses on Saturday so on friday afternoon i just IM'ed her to say have a good trip and we talked a little while then i said i had to go. Later that night she IM'ed me and we talked some more and i told her that we should talk when she gets back because i know things between us havent been exactly comfortable recently and she said ';yes, thats fine'; She has been gon for just about a week now and comes back on sunday night. I want nothing more then to get back together with this girl. We were together for a year and for the she has recently tried to talk to me numerous times in the last two weeks. I really miss her and love her and want to know if it sounds like were on the road to getting back together and what i can do to get her back in my arms. She was my first love and i really really really want her back. Anything Helps :) Thank youHow can i get my ex-girlfriend back?
Well, it seems she wants to get back with you too. But if you keep pushing her away like that, she's going to think you don't want anything to do with her anymore. But, that doesn't mean to rush anything. Just let things fall back to place. Be nice to her you know, text her once in awhile and ask her how she is doing. Call her up sometime and say you just wanted to talk. After a good friendship is established again, ask her to hang out. After you guys hang out see how it goes. If it's meant to be again it will all go well, if not then maybe it should just stay the way it is you know.
But I WISH YOU good luck:)How can i get my ex-girlfriend back?
seems to me she misses you to. When she gets back you should tell her how you feel or even tell her now and just hope for the best.
It looks like she wants you back too. GOOD LUCK!
you have to talk to her,do puppies have rabies Electric Scooter
Well, it seems she wants to get back with you too. But if you keep pushing her away like that, she's going to think you don't want anything to do with her anymore. But, that doesn't mean to rush anything. Just let things fall back to place. Be nice to her you know, text her once in awhile and ask her how she is doing. Call her up sometime and say you just wanted to talk. After a good friendship is established again, ask her to hang out. After you guys hang out see how it goes. If it's meant to be again it will all go well, if not then maybe it should just stay the way it is you know.
But I WISH YOU good luck:)How can i get my ex-girlfriend back?
seems to me she misses you to. When she gets back you should tell her how you feel or even tell her now and just hope for the best.
It looks like she wants you back too. GOOD LUCK!
you have to talk to her,
Trying to get ex girlfriend back?
2 days ago I called my ex because she had called the night before. I didn't answer. So yesterday I called her and asked hey ';hey what's up? how come you called?'; and she was like ';just to talk..'; and than , like most ex's , asked her ';give it to me straight are you seeing someone else?'; Complete silence and than she just hung up. 2 minutes later she messaged me with ';Btw I'm not I'm just busy and I don't like u drilling me'; , she sent that message twice and than she said ';Oh so nor ur gonna ignore when I answer u'; and than the last message was ';Which I didn't have to answer';. I responded 2 hours later saying ';Thank you for answering and I didn't want you to feel like I was bothering you';. That was the last thing I said and no contact so far. What do you guys think? Don't say how she's playing games or such , just need to know how badly I messed up.
4 hours ago - 4 days left to answer.
P.S
I also wrote her an apology letter 4 days ago and sent it snail mail , called her on the same day she received it and was like ';the only reason i'm answering is because of your apology letter';.Trying to get ex girlfriend back?
Hey Don,
Getting back together with your ex girlfriend is not so easy.
Nevertheless if you decide you and her are meant to be together its achievable.
Here are some suggestions -- assuming, of course, that you want the girl back:
1. Don't get too jealous. Remember, jealousy is an emotion and typically refers to the negative thoughts and feelings of insecurity, concern, and anxiety over an anticipated loss of something that the person values, such as a relationship, companionship, or love.
2.Leave Her Alone. Give her some time to think about the relationship. If you had a wonderful relationship, she'll feel that she misses you and will try to get back to you.
3.Terminate all communication. This is tough and it will be killing you, but really it's killing her more. She's starting to understand how much she needs you and how much she misses you. Cutting off communication is the largest step.
4.Recover Emotionally. You don't have a chance of getting your ex back if you're not emotionally calm and in command. Women dislike needy, clingy, desperate men - so you need to pull your own life together before trying to draw her back into it. Merely be calm and collected about the whole circumstance, and make your life happier. Going for jogging or to the gym will make you feel better too.
5.Start talking to another. This helps for many reasons. This will probably be too much for your ex. She will find out that you're talking to this girl, and it will get her back to you. Use with carefulness as it may give the wrong signals, such as a sign that she should move on because you have a new girlfriend.
6.Act like nothing is wrong. She's not going to want you back if you're acting depressed. Make sure you're laughing a lot and pretending to have a good time. This is so hard because of the break up depression.
7.Look your best. Make sure your acne is gone, you get yourself shaped up, and looking excellent. She won't be able to resist.
8.Build up confidence.
9.If you want to get her back, then you need to be the Alpha male. Get back the confidence you had earlier when you just began dating her.
In my opinion a good guideline from a book is always practical for making up with your ex.
There is a great book I once used which helped me and many people I know of.
you can review it in the next link:
http://www.squidoo.com/magic--of-making-鈥?/a>
All the best!Trying to get ex girlfriend back?
if your writing her apology letters and trying that hard to get in contact with her you can't be messing up that badly.. why did you break up in the first place? you sound nice, i hope she's not trying to screw you around.
4 hours ago - 4 days left to answer.
P.S
I also wrote her an apology letter 4 days ago and sent it snail mail , called her on the same day she received it and was like ';the only reason i'm answering is because of your apology letter';.Trying to get ex girlfriend back?
Hey Don,
Getting back together with your ex girlfriend is not so easy.
Nevertheless if you decide you and her are meant to be together its achievable.
Here are some suggestions -- assuming, of course, that you want the girl back:
1. Don't get too jealous. Remember, jealousy is an emotion and typically refers to the negative thoughts and feelings of insecurity, concern, and anxiety over an anticipated loss of something that the person values, such as a relationship, companionship, or love.
2.Leave Her Alone. Give her some time to think about the relationship. If you had a wonderful relationship, she'll feel that she misses you and will try to get back to you.
3.Terminate all communication. This is tough and it will be killing you, but really it's killing her more. She's starting to understand how much she needs you and how much she misses you. Cutting off communication is the largest step.
4.Recover Emotionally. You don't have a chance of getting your ex back if you're not emotionally calm and in command. Women dislike needy, clingy, desperate men - so you need to pull your own life together before trying to draw her back into it. Merely be calm and collected about the whole circumstance, and make your life happier. Going for jogging or to the gym will make you feel better too.
5.Start talking to another. This helps for many reasons. This will probably be too much for your ex. She will find out that you're talking to this girl, and it will get her back to you. Use with carefulness as it may give the wrong signals, such as a sign that she should move on because you have a new girlfriend.
6.Act like nothing is wrong. She's not going to want you back if you're acting depressed. Make sure you're laughing a lot and pretending to have a good time. This is so hard because of the break up depression.
7.Look your best. Make sure your acne is gone, you get yourself shaped up, and looking excellent. She won't be able to resist.
8.Build up confidence.
9.If you want to get her back, then you need to be the Alpha male. Get back the confidence you had earlier when you just began dating her.
In my opinion a good guideline from a book is always practical for making up with your ex.
There is a great book I once used which helped me and many people I know of.
you can review it in the next link:
http://www.squidoo.com/magic--of-making-鈥?/a>
All the best!Trying to get ex girlfriend back?
if your writing her apology letters and trying that hard to get in contact with her you can't be messing up that badly.. why did you break up in the first place? you sound nice, i hope she's not trying to screw you around.
How to win your ex back?
Reccently i broke up with my girlfriend, and right away my ';friend'; asked her out, i think it was because she was so sad she went out with him, but im not sure and i was just wondering if anyone has some tips to get her backHow to win your ex back?
Tell her you're sorry and you made a huge mistake, send her flowers, and reminisce about a great (maybe intimate) moment you two shared. Then she'll realize that she misses you and possibly get back with you.
It depends on why you guys broke up in the first place.How to win your ex back?
Based on what you wrote.. you didn't say you still like her or miss her. It seems like you want her back because there is competition and there is someone else in the picture now. If that's the reason, I'm not going to give you any tips!
First you need to get her attention. You can do this by changing your look (for the better), setting new goals for the future, or by building up your social status.
The key is to make her see what she is missing. since you broke up with her, you can assume that she didn't want it to end. But not you have to make up for your mistake. Get creative and show her how you really feel!
I know that this is a completely stupid thing to do but..... Tell her that you gave her an exotic form of herpes so that if she has sex with anyone else besides you. She-Will-DIE!.
Tell her you're sorry and you made a huge mistake, send her flowers, and reminisce about a great (maybe intimate) moment you two shared. Then she'll realize that she misses you and possibly get back with you.
It depends on why you guys broke up in the first place.How to win your ex back?
Based on what you wrote.. you didn't say you still like her or miss her. It seems like you want her back because there is competition and there is someone else in the picture now. If that's the reason, I'm not going to give you any tips!
First you need to get her attention. You can do this by changing your look (for the better), setting new goals for the future, or by building up your social status.
The key is to make her see what she is missing. since you broke up with her, you can assume that she didn't want it to end. But not you have to make up for your mistake. Get creative and show her how you really feel!
I know that this is a completely stupid thing to do but..... Tell her that you gave her an exotic form of herpes so that if she has sex with anyone else besides you. She-Will-DIE!.
Can i get my ex-girlfriend back?
Hi, So we broke up about 3 months ago and completely stopped talking about a month ago. She has recently tried to talk to me a little bit. I would ignore her at first but about a week ago i responded but acted as if i was over her. I said something like ';just friends'; and she said ';so your over me?'; so i answered with ';isnt that what you wanted: and she said ';i guess.'; A few days went by and i thought i would have heard from her but didnt. She was leaving for Nicaragua with her church to build houses on Saturday so on friday afternoon i just IM'ed her to say have a good trip and we talked a little while then i said i had to go. Later that night she IM'ed me and we talked some more and i told her that we should talk when she gets back because i know things between us havent been exactly comfortable recently and she said ';yes, thats fine'; She has been gon for just about a week now and comes back on sunday night. I want nothing more then to get back together with this girl. We were together for a year and for the she has recently tried to talk to me numerous times in the last two weeks. I really miss her and love her and want to know if it sounds like were on the road to getting back together and what i can do to get her back in my arms. She was my first love and i really really really want her back. Anything Helps :) Thank you
P.S- i spent a lot of time trying to get her back right after we broke up, so then i just kinda took it easy and stopped talking to her for a while and i guess she go the point. I went back to therapy for this girl and made some serious changes that i needed to make in order to make our relationship work. I just want the shot to show her how much i have improved. How do i get her to agree to giving me that one shot i need? I just dont want to act like im overdooing anything.Can i get my ex-girlfriend back?
hmm by what you said it seems like she has feelings for you too. you should try writing her letters or getting her something to show that you were thinking about her and just keep trying to talk to her ....good luckCan i get my ex-girlfriend back?
Not a chance.
Erik erik erik...You never had a girlfriend
P.S- i spent a lot of time trying to get her back right after we broke up, so then i just kinda took it easy and stopped talking to her for a while and i guess she go the point. I went back to therapy for this girl and made some serious changes that i needed to make in order to make our relationship work. I just want the shot to show her how much i have improved. How do i get her to agree to giving me that one shot i need? I just dont want to act like im overdooing anything.Can i get my ex-girlfriend back?
hmm by what you said it seems like she has feelings for you too. you should try writing her letters or getting her something to show that you were thinking about her and just keep trying to talk to her ....good luckCan i get my ex-girlfriend back?
Not a chance.
Erik erik erik...You never had a girlfriend
How can i get my ex girlfriend back?
My gf and I split up 5 months ago,the break up was hard on her, and we stayed close and acted like we were out the whole time, we did all the stuff u do when your dating. 2 weeks ago she asked if i still loved her and i said yes, it made me realise all the feelings i had so i asked her back out, she said no, she said she has had to much pain and doesnt wnat that again. She slept with someon else and said she realised she isnt as hung up on me as she thought, it was just a 1 night stand. I've turned into your cliche, not eating, sleeping, always thinking about it. We have done his before breaking up and den havin one nights stands with other people and i won her back, she says she doesn't love me like she did but she said that last time. I have had long chats with her and she said she doesn't want anybody and wants space and to enjoy life. i kept goin on and she said she wanted space and i gave her that, she wants to get back to bein close like we have for the past few months. I wrote her a letter and she said she is sorry about the way im feeling because she has felt liek that for 5 months, she said she spent all that time thinking about me, so i wish i said something sooner, i feel ive missed my chance. she also said that she feels its happened for a reason and it upsets her 2 but she cnt help it, she cares alot. She said she doesnt wnat any1 and she wants to be the good friends that we are. And the way i see my life is if im meant to ill get the feelings back but i really dnt want it at the mo! we always hang out and she calls me her best friend and i said about goin cinema and she said we will do stuff liek dat because i am really important to her. Im totally confused because we have split up a 3 times and gone back out and its been great, she has taken all splits quite hard in the past. Im confused because how can she fall out of love in 2 weeks? why is she wanting to keep me so close yet tellin me she desnt have those feelings for me but if there meant 2 den they'll come back? im not bothered about the other bloke because last time we split we both slept with other people and then went back out together. i dont no whether to throw in the towel, or to not have contact and see if she comes back or what? i really love her and i know shes loved me for 3 years, how can that be lost in 2 weeks? is she just wanting to have fun and keep me there? or is it definately all over?? i dont get the siuation at all!! any help??How can i get my ex girlfriend back?
Hey Shane.....You need to turn the tables around and you need to do it quick if you want your girl back.
Quit being her friend for the time being and telling her how much you love her etc. Right now you are being her emotional tampon. I don't mean to sound harsh but that is the reality of it.
I have seen this so many times where the guy gets so hung up on their girl that they change into a needy clingy guy.
What attracted her to you in the first place? Not being a sap but being cool and strong about who you are as a person. Women want a guy that's got it going on, like the guy you used to be when you first met.
The best advice about getting an ex-girlfriend back that I ever got came from Matt Huston. It was a real wake up call into the psycology of women. He knows what he is talking about and wrote a no punches held back blueprint about how to get an ex-girlfriend back.
Here is a review of that blueprint if you want to check it out...good luck!
http://www.getexbackproductreports.com/T鈥?/a>How can i get my ex girlfriend back?
an ex girlfriend is an x for a reason ,just stay friends
My dad used to say it's the rocks in the brook that make the water sing. These things we hate in life, like losing someone and not being able to influence their decision, is really tough on us. You'll be going about your business and then -WAM- a memory from a smell or sound brings you right back and it hurts all over again.
The thing about it is that this pain is so necessary when you break up. It makes sure that the next time we are in a relationship, we don't jerk it up like we did the ones before. It reminds us how careful we need to step, understanding how it felt last time.
You cannot force this decision and you can't really influence it because of your past. All you can do is take the lesson from this and try to make it better last time.
Remember exes are exes for a reason.
May be your gf realized that you are both better to be friends relationship only and no more than that. Just take it easy and try to understand her feelings and when the time comes you will know that it is really for real either her or not.
well is sounds like she doesnt really know what she want just tell her to really think about what she wants in this relationship and give her space and when i space i mean dont see her you could text her but not to much its gonna be hard i know ive been through this to well kinda similar give it acouple of weeks maybe longer and if she really cares for you then she will come around. well good luck
Okay one, you sleep with other people? What up with that? You shouldnt be doing that if you love her. Two, Im goin thru the same thing as you. My ex bf and I have been off and on like that for the last 3 weeks. She wants to be friends bcuz she wants to feel like she still has some1. She still wants to be a part of your life. Shes not ready to just go out in the world and forget about you. (She did what I did, We feel the same) So, shes still torn between loving you and moving on from you. THATS why she chose being friends bcuz notice, being friends is right in the smack down center of loving and moving on. Make sense? Thats how she feels. She cares about you, no doubt, One part of her loves you, the other part of her wants to move on. Shes torn, so she wants to be friends. Okay three, if you love her, you should comfort her and be really nice to her bcuz if you do treat her nice nd sweet, it'll bring the ';love levels'; up more. You should also tell her how you feel. That always helps in relationships..I hope this helped! A lot of it is what Im going thru right now. Good luck :)
Hey Shane.....You need to turn the tables around and you need to do it quick if you want your girl back.
Quit being her friend for the time being and telling her how much you love her etc. Right now you are being her emotional tampon. I don't mean to sound harsh but that is the reality of it.
I have seen this so many times where the guy gets so hung up on their girl that they change into a needy clingy guy.
What attracted her to you in the first place? Not being a sap but being cool and strong about who you are as a person. Women want a guy that's got it going on, like the guy you used to be when you first met.
The best advice about getting an ex-girlfriend back that I ever got came from Matt Huston. It was a real wake up call into the psycology of women. He knows what he is talking about and wrote a no punches held back blueprint about how to get an ex-girlfriend back.
Here is a review of that blueprint if you want to check it out...good luck!
http://www.getexbackproductreports.com/T鈥?/a>How can i get my ex girlfriend back?
an ex girlfriend is an x for a reason ,just stay friends
My dad used to say it's the rocks in the brook that make the water sing. These things we hate in life, like losing someone and not being able to influence their decision, is really tough on us. You'll be going about your business and then -WAM- a memory from a smell or sound brings you right back and it hurts all over again.
The thing about it is that this pain is so necessary when you break up. It makes sure that the next time we are in a relationship, we don't jerk it up like we did the ones before. It reminds us how careful we need to step, understanding how it felt last time.
You cannot force this decision and you can't really influence it because of your past. All you can do is take the lesson from this and try to make it better last time.
Remember exes are exes for a reason.
May be your gf realized that you are both better to be friends relationship only and no more than that. Just take it easy and try to understand her feelings and when the time comes you will know that it is really for real either her or not.
well is sounds like she doesnt really know what she want just tell her to really think about what she wants in this relationship and give her space and when i space i mean dont see her you could text her but not to much its gonna be hard i know ive been through this to well kinda similar give it acouple of weeks maybe longer and if she really cares for you then she will come around. well good luck
Okay one, you sleep with other people? What up with that? You shouldnt be doing that if you love her. Two, Im goin thru the same thing as you. My ex bf and I have been off and on like that for the last 3 weeks. She wants to be friends bcuz she wants to feel like she still has some1. She still wants to be a part of your life. Shes not ready to just go out in the world and forget about you. (She did what I did, We feel the same) So, shes still torn between loving you and moving on from you. THATS why she chose being friends bcuz notice, being friends is right in the smack down center of loving and moving on. Make sense? Thats how she feels. She cares about you, no doubt, One part of her loves you, the other part of her wants to move on. Shes torn, so she wants to be friends. Okay three, if you love her, you should comfort her and be really nice to her bcuz if you do treat her nice nd sweet, it'll bring the ';love levels'; up more. You should also tell her how you feel. That always helps in relationships..I hope this helped! A lot of it is what Im going thru right now. Good luck :)
If your ex girlfriend calls you alot and you talk for hours and hours does it mean anything more then friends?
We talk alot on the phone with her calling me more now then she has since we were together. In fact, she hasn't called me this much since we were together and back at the time we talked the same as now, for hours upon hours at a time either during the daytime, evening or late nights. She has a good idea how how I feel however I am not sure what she really wants, however I have known her along time, almost 5 years now, and know that she would not just call out the blue for no reason because if she dosen't want to talk or something then there is no way she would call. For quite awhile now we are getting along so very well and I am certainly not complaining, just letting things flow and not bring up anything from when we were together. My guess is she is slowly trying to rekindle the relationship by being good friends first before anything else. I can say that when we were together before we really were not friends first, we just jumped into a relationshp right away so maybe she wants to do it the right way this time. What is everyone's opinions on this?If your ex girlfriend calls you alot and you talk for hours and hours does it mean anything more then friends?
i think you are right that she does want to get back together with you but maybe she wants to take it slowly this time. but the most important think is do you want to get back together if her, if yes, go for it and if no, tell her and explain it to her, it better for both of you.inflation rate Electric Scooter
i think you are right that she does want to get back together with you but maybe she wants to take it slowly this time. but the most important think is do you want to get back together if her, if yes, go for it and if no, tell her and explain it to her, it better for both of you.
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