Ex Girlfriend-Need a method to get back with her...NEED ADVICE PLEASE?

So I'm reading all of these articles saying stay away from your ex to get her back..well for my case I hardly am in contact with my ex.She broke up with me but she texts me to see what I'm doing to see what I been up too. I give little details but not too specific. And she says that she wants the spark to be back between us...I'm thinking of telling her that I need 2 weeks to think about things and that this will help us both at the end..Question 1: Should I tell her that? If not then what else should I say? I am going to surprise her by becoming this new person in appearance and personality when I meet her again in 2 1/2 weeks and by this time it would have been a month since we've seen each other. Question 2: How does that sound? I do not want to make this break forever but just enough for her to start missing me. Question 3: Are there other methods to make your ex girlfriend miss you without losing all complete contact?Ex Girlfriend-Need a method to get back with her...NEED ADVICE PLEASE?
That actually sounds kind of sweet, although I don't know how you can become a new personality in two weeks. But, I wouldn't tell her that you need 2 weeks to think about things. That will just make things worse (because she will be thinking the worst).





Don't play games about wanting her to miss you. It sounds like she already does.





Could you perhaps tell her that you are planning a surprise and will be busy getting ready for it for the next couple weeks. Tell her that you can't see her, but can talk on the phone or text her.





I think when you see her, you should also give her a gift, besides the gift of the new you. After all, you made her wait two weeks to see you, and perhaps she liked the old you.





Good luck!